Can't even shout, Can't even cry. The Gentlemen are coming by. Looking in windows, knocking on doors. They need to take seven, and they might take yours. Can't call to mom, can't say a word. You're gonna die screaming but you won't be heard.

Dream Girl ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - Dec 05, 2013 11:23:29 am PST #6835 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Step one, take a nice hot shower. Get nice and clean. Comb the hair. Shave. Nothing makes you feel good like looking good.

Step two. Put on some casual/nice, clean clothes. Something with a collar. Polo shirt, button down. Some nice slacks. Not fancy, but not cut up jeans. If you look good, you feel good.

Step three. Go for a walk. The fresh air will do you good. Calm you down. The exercise will relax you. Walk down the hill. Hit that main strip. Walk up one side, and down the other.

On the walk, look for any signs that say "help wanted". It's amazing what you don't see until you are looking for it. Hit up the big box stores, if any in your area.

While doing that, poke your head into various business that you like, or think you would like, and just ask, "hey, by chance, are you hiring?". Hit up the restaurants and bars. You can clear a table, fill a dishwasher, stock shelves as well as any other guy.

As you do this, adapt your approach, based on feedback you've gotten from previous enquiries.

Tomorrow, walk down the other side of the hill, and hit the other main drag. Do the same thing.

Next day, go back to the first, and hit up stores you didn't ask in.

Then, in the evenings, hit up Craigs List.

If you get a positive response, they will walk you through the process. Have a couple ID's ready for the tax forms. Something with a photo. SS card, etc.


Dana - Dec 05, 2013 11:25:51 am PST #6836 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Sean, can you give me a neighborhood to use when searching on Craigslist?


omnis_audis - Dec 05, 2013 11:26:07 am PST #6837 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

also, call the places you have worked before. Talk to the production managers. See if they have other work available, aside from sound. Carpenter. Strike crew. Follow Spot operator. Usher. Box Office.


sj - Dec 05, 2013 11:26:38 am PST #6838 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Sean, I don't have any advice to add that hasn't already been said here, but I'm sorry that you're going through this. I hope you find something soon.


Sean K - Dec 05, 2013 11:33:41 am PST #6839 of 30002
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Silver Lake/Hollywood is my neighborhood. Going for a walk now.


Hil R. - Dec 05, 2013 11:51:43 am PST #6840 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

omnis gives good advice.


Steph L. - Dec 05, 2013 11:52:23 am PST #6841 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

omnis, you're good.

t x-post of praise


Dana - Dec 05, 2013 11:55:49 am PST #6842 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Some possibilities. Keep in mind that I'm just looking through CL to see what I can find, and I don't intend any commentary on your skill level or abilities.

Youth Hostel Supervisor: [link]

Shipping/Inventory Associate: [link]

Beginner Bartender: [link]

Doggie Daycare: [link]

Parking Attendant (I know you don't have a car, but don't know if you have a driver's license or not): [link]

Customer Service: [link]

Chipotle: [link]

These people might be slightly nuts, but what the hey: [link]

Carpet cleaning: [link]

Stocking/Shipping: [link]

Mover: [link]

No idea if you can wrap gifts, but if you can: [link]

Sales: [link]


SuziQ - Dec 05, 2013 12:11:59 pm PST #6843 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Please send photo and resume.

Why a photo for a warehouse worker? You are right - slightly nuts.


Hil R. - Dec 05, 2013 12:35:11 pm PST #6844 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

A few others:

Weekend receptionist: [link]

Maybe sketchy, but I don't know: [link]