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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Nov 17, 2013 1:25:48 pm PST #6385 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

The Evil Empire Amazon has it for $26 used, bonny. What's it about?

Zen, genograms are basically org charts for your family. They are a wildly useful tool in understanding the stories that get passed down, generationally, both consciously and unconsciously.

This particular tome on the subject discusses how particular events and traumas influence subsequent generations and how that chain of experience can be broken.

I'm most interested in it because it is supposed to contain some useful case studies.

The genogram books that I have now use examples like Sigmund Freud's family (just exactly as you'd expect it to be) and Peter Fonda's family as examples. While entertaining, not particularly relateable to my audience.


beekaytee - Nov 17, 2013 1:27:27 pm PST #6386 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Given that Michael Vick owns dogs again and says he has for a long time?

I knew he was petitioning for permission with all sorts of ridiculous excuses as to why he should be forgiven, but I had not heard that the petition was granted.

Cass, do you have a link?


sj - Nov 17, 2013 1:31:42 pm PST #6387 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, yeah, But then I also feel weird about that thing, after people have a baby where, you know, everyone's all relieved that "everything's okay". Not that I don't want that for them...this is not an easy life, and I'm not militant enough to insist that if I had every choice, I'd still pick it. But it's also not *that* horrible, and I feel a little insulted every time I've got to go "Thank God, another baby that won't live like me." And at the same time, I have to be all over it already. But it's the worst thing ever for your bundle of joy...makes total sense.

Yeah, it's difficult. I definitely don't wish ill on anyone's child or think that it is easy on any parent if their child has special needs, but am I supposed to feel guilty that my mother never had the chance to raise a "normal" child? Plus, as someone with spina bifida my chances of having a child with spina bifida is increased, so am I supposed to feel bad about taking that risk? It was just a stupid thing to say to me.


sj - Nov 17, 2013 1:32:33 pm PST #6388 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

smonster, how awful. I can't even imagine.


smonster - Nov 17, 2013 2:59:50 pm PST #6389 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

New Orleans animal laws are crap, completely unshockingly, and the PD doesn't do much to enforce them, also unshockingly.


Cass - Nov 17, 2013 6:14:42 pm PST #6390 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Yeah, I do. [link] [link] [link]


Stephanie - Nov 17, 2013 6:20:07 pm PST #6391 of 30002
Trust my rage

I have heard of people being banned from pet ownership, but I don't know what is required in terms of proof/follow through by complainants.

We just had two people murdered in a case where the guy who likely did it was banned from owning pitbulls but got more anyway. I think it was a case similar to what smonster described

[link]


Ginger - Nov 17, 2013 6:30:28 pm PST #6392 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I'd like to smear the people involved with bacon and put them in a cage with a bear.

Is there any local media that might cover what happened, smonster?


beekaytee - Nov 17, 2013 6:49:40 pm PST #6393 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Thank you Cass. I'll probably do some writing about this and appreciate the source material.

Also, UGH. It's hard to even know what to say about crap like that.


Cass - Nov 17, 2013 7:14:57 pm PST #6394 of 30002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I'll probably do some writing about this and appreciate the source material.

As distasteful as it is, you'll probably want to check out more of the results here [link] then if you are writing about it. I believe he has a second dog now.