Spike: At least give me Wesley's office since he's gone. Angel: He's not gone. He's on a leave of absence. Spike: Yeah, right. Boo-hoo. Thought he killed his bloody father. Try staking your mother when she's coming on to you! Harmony: Well…that explains a lot.

'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Typo Boy - Nov 06, 2013 9:47:18 am PST #6071 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Sociopath and psychopath are clinically synonymous

There is at least some discourse that makes a distinction. [link] Popularly at least, the difference between a sociopath and a psychopath, is that the sociopath has better impulse control, is a more long term thinker and is better at concealing their disorder in the long term. I'm sure those who are saying this is not clinically correct are right.


Burrell - Nov 06, 2013 9:50:30 am PST #6072 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh. I've had a headache for 24+ hours straight and only just now realized I hadn't taken anything for it. That's been remedied but egad, I am not firing on all cylinders lately.


DavidS - Nov 06, 2013 9:56:35 am PST #6073 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Popularly at least, the difference between a sociopath and a psychopath, is that the sociopath has better impulse control, is a more long term thinker and is better at concealing their disorder in the long term. I'm sure those who are saying this is not clinically correct are right.

That's just people making shit up. There's been a long series of clinical terms for this going back to phrases like "morally retarded" in the 19th century. Clinically "psychopath" was superseded by the term "sociopath" (which has itself been superseded) and referred to same lack of empathy and Iago-like tendency to see all human interaction as a game that needed to be played for dominance and exploitation.


brenda m - Nov 06, 2013 10:07:03 am PST #6074 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Clinically "psychopath" was superseded by the term "sociopath" (which has itself been superseded) and referred to same lack of empathy and Iago-like tendency to see all human interaction as a game that needed to be played for dominance and exploitation.

Well, to continue in the vein of making shit up, in my mind the distinction has more to do with the sociopath not giving a good goddamn what they have to do to get what they want, whereas for the psychopath the violence/harm is all part of the charm.


Amy - Nov 06, 2013 10:38:50 am PST #6075 of 30002
Because books.

I thought the sociopath knew the difference between right and wrong and didn't give a shit, and the psychopath was strictly controlled by their own impulses.

At least that's the way I defined in my head for a long time. I can't remember where I got that from, though.


Burrell - Nov 06, 2013 10:40:19 am PST #6076 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Pardon me for bringing up something that has nothing to do with sociopaths.

I just got an email with a long, lovely, heartfelt tribute to my sister. I wish I could say that it made me feel warm and sad and happy, since that was clearly the intention. But the truth is it made me feel a little bitter that my sister was so wonderful and giving to people who were not her family, and so parsimonious with her love towards us. Intellectually I get it. We each get to choose who we want as family, and she was certainly free to choose to embrace her friends over us. But in the end, with the exception of a few good friends who refused to let her push them away, it was family who nursed her through her illness, and it is family who will need to take care of the messes she left behind.

And I'm trying not to cry because I'm at work, and I need to go teach in 15 minutes.


brenda m - Nov 06, 2013 10:40:57 am PST #6077 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Aw, Burrell. That's so hard.


Typo Boy - Nov 06, 2013 10:42:23 am PST #6078 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Burell, that is hard.


Atropa - Nov 06, 2013 10:43:27 am PST #6079 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

That's really hard, Burrell.


Amy - Nov 06, 2013 10:50:08 am PST #6080 of 30002
Because books.

Oh, Burrell, I'm sorry.