Buffy. When I saw you stop the world from, you know, ending, I just assumed that was a big week for you. Turns out I suddenly find myself needing to know the plural of 'apocalypse.'

Riley ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


juliana - Nov 06, 2013 6:35:34 am PST #6065 of 30002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Odd that I'm such an anxious person, and yet pretty good in a first aid crisis.

Not so much, really. My anxiety hits the hardest when I don't have something to do, when I'm feeling like a burden or a drag on society. If I have a project or a goal to focus on, I am much more likely to be able to invite Mara in for tea, rather than let him remind me of my myriad failings.

(This does not include the absolutely mind-boggling anxiety/stage fright I feel in front of some auditions, because that's a different source.)


Calli - Nov 06, 2013 6:40:43 am PST #6066 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I think it's a good call, smonster. Texts from last night is only a funny site because I don't actually have to spend a lot of time with those people. (And also, because I'm assuming they're mostly college students who'll get over the "funny drunk" texting in a couple of years.)


smonster - Nov 06, 2013 6:43:38 am PST #6067 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

You dealt with K's thing, right? Much better than I had done.

Oh right, that. Hey, you dealt with my health crisis pretty similarly. "I am coming over and I am taking you to the ER right now and I am not leaving you there."

Not so much, really. My anxiety hits the hardest when I don't have something to do, when I'm feeling like a burden or a drag on society. If I have a project or a goal to focus on, I am much more likely to be able to invite Mara in for tea, rather than let him remind me of my myriad failings.

Hi, twin. True that.


Toddson - Nov 06, 2013 7:48:49 am PST #6068 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Apropos of nothing whatsoever, it struck me that a steampunk cruise might be of interest.


Steph L. - Nov 06, 2013 9:09:27 am PST #6069 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I have my contract from the AMA finally, yay! But it's the first bigass freelance contract I've ever dealt with (the nuns are not exactly fixated on things like contracts), so all the boilerplate wording (which is intended to protect the AMA from the IRS classifying me as an employee rather than freelance) is somewhat intimidating.

Not bad -- there's nothing sketchy in the contract -- but just Big And Important And Very Official.

(I realize employment is important and official; it's just one thing to think about it, and another thing entirely to have a contract in front of you, when you've never dealt with contracts before.)

(Okay, I'm done with my moment of Holy Crap, I'm An Adult.)


Atropa - Nov 06, 2013 9:20:03 am PST #6070 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I'm fairly certain that the use of the word "sheeple" in other than a quotation is shorthand for "I am a giant dick".

Pretty much, yes.

ION, ugh, I do not want to exercise today. I am slothlike and I ache. But I need to get back in the habit of exercise, which means doing it even when I don't feel like it. Because let's be honest, it's not like I ever feel like exercising.


Typo Boy - Nov 06, 2013 9:47:18 am PST #6071 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Sociopath and psychopath are clinically synonymous

There is at least some discourse that makes a distinction. [link] Popularly at least, the difference between a sociopath and a psychopath, is that the sociopath has better impulse control, is a more long term thinker and is better at concealing their disorder in the long term. I'm sure those who are saying this is not clinically correct are right.


Burrell - Nov 06, 2013 9:50:30 am PST #6072 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh. I've had a headache for 24+ hours straight and only just now realized I hadn't taken anything for it. That's been remedied but egad, I am not firing on all cylinders lately.


DavidS - Nov 06, 2013 9:56:35 am PST #6073 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Popularly at least, the difference between a sociopath and a psychopath, is that the sociopath has better impulse control, is a more long term thinker and is better at concealing their disorder in the long term. I'm sure those who are saying this is not clinically correct are right.

That's just people making shit up. There's been a long series of clinical terms for this going back to phrases like "morally retarded" in the 19th century. Clinically "psychopath" was superseded by the term "sociopath" (which has itself been superseded) and referred to same lack of empathy and Iago-like tendency to see all human interaction as a game that needed to be played for dominance and exploitation.


brenda m - Nov 06, 2013 10:07:03 am PST #6074 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Clinically "psychopath" was superseded by the term "sociopath" (which has itself been superseded) and referred to same lack of empathy and Iago-like tendency to see all human interaction as a game that needed to be played for dominance and exploitation.

Well, to continue in the vein of making shit up, in my mind the distinction has more to do with the sociopath not giving a good goddamn what they have to do to get what they want, whereas for the psychopath the violence/harm is all part of the charm.