X-post with ND. I hear you! Exhaustion for good stuff is better than exhaustion for bad stuff, but still there is the whole exhausted part.

Can you promise yourself some specific reward when you get some time? I mean more than a nice nap?

Steph I'm so happy you and Tim are married!

I'm sorry the B&B screwed you guys over and I think you should write a letter (and to all the other places mentioned) when you are up to it.

The way she treated you makes me wonder what she told the Reenactors about the wedding and if she said anything negative about you to them. Did she tell them there was a wedding, did she tell them they were top priortiy. If any of the organizers asked about the wedding did the B&B owner make it sound like your wedding was interloping on their event.

ND, your Halloween season sounds like my hurricane season, re: massive workload.

Heh, Laura, that's hilarious.

NoiseDesign- good luck getting through to the other side. grind~ma.

Dear Fellow Democrat: Please don't mansplain to me about the ADA and how it works. It's not so much that people try to keep me out things, but they do not think about me when they decide how wide the aisles are, or how much room in between tables, etc.(all stuff there are not, to my admittedly imperfect knowledge, legal regulations about) but they still create actual barriers, in real life. Who wouldn't want a five-year lawsuit with her Cuba Libre anyway?(Not that I'm litigious, even if that crap didn't take forever. Which it totally does.) The fact that you could write "Well, there's the ADA, so that's no problem." makes you smug and annoying. and I'm sorry I defended you when other people said you are a hopeless dork.

Complaining about being tired when you're exhausted is totally understandable, ND! I hope you can get enough sleep in there.

He funny. Me smarter.

You sure are, Laura. What a dick.

erika, sorry you have to deal with the smug annoying mansplainers, and even more sorry the ADA doesn't really give you everything you need.

Yeah, me too.(it does make a *difference*, but it's not like "We have A Law now...we kicked that nasty Ableism problem right in the butt.") Fans in sports bars are still gonna cheer and give me a view of their unappealing asses. Surely a political person should not be surprised that there is a gap between what the law says and what happens in real life.(and not, like, on purpose. I'm not a typical customer, and people don't know what to consider till I'm there.) And there isn't a law that says my chair shouldn't have to be in the aisle to get jostled.Argh.

And there isn't a law that says my chair shouldn't have to be in the aisle to get jostled.

Common sense law? Oh yeah, the people who understand the facts don't actually make the rules.

Yeah. The only way to have calm confidence about stuff like that is for it not to be your problem.

I'm sorry things did not go as planned. I hope you can let it go .

However, the word I would use when/if you complain is dishonest. As in you can not trust the owner to keep her word/contract.

but I cant wait to see the rest of the pictures