Being clueless is one thing. Being intentionally mean is something totally different.
Okay, um, I'm lost. Uh, I'm angry, and I'm armed, so if you two have something that you need to work out --
Mal ,'War Stories'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Connie Neil - Sep 08, 2013 3:23:57 pm PDT #4415 of 30002
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Aims - Sep 08, 2013 3:30:07 pm PDT #4416 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.
le n - not an asshole at all. And I will say that my interactions with her were infinitely more pleasant when a) it was just her and me and 2) when she wasn't drinking. I'll miss that particular J. The drunken asshole? Nope. Glad she's gone.
Trudy Booth - Sep 08, 2013 3:39:13 pm PDT #4417 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
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Aims - Sep 08, 2013 3:44:32 pm PDT #4418 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Why delete??
Tom Scola - Sep 08, 2013 3:48:22 pm PDT #4419 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.
Trudy is a Cyberman now.
Trudy Booth - Sep 08, 2013 3:49:04 pm PDT #4420 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
I'm having some sort of technical problem that keeps eating my heartfelt post. Feh.
SuziQ - Sep 08, 2013 3:49:54 pm PDT #4421 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Aims, it is hard to lose a friend who isn't even the friend she was when you became friends. (I think I said that right). But regardless, standing up for yourself and surrounding yourself with good people is fantastic.
So, CJ is home. And pissed that I touched anything in his room. Yes, I respect your space but it has been months of me asking you to clean it and you ditched out on it when I wasn't home. Your welcome for all the clean laundry. Oh, and I'm the parent, you are the kid. Live with it.
Aims - Sep 08, 2013 3:54:06 pm PDT #4422 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.
standing up for yourself and surrounding yourself with good people is fantastic.
I spent a lot of money on therapy to discover that I lacked the skill of setting boundaries. And then I spent even more money learning how to set them. And even though Joe was the one who set them in this scenario, I'm still gonna call it a personal victory.
Trudy Booth - Sep 08, 2013 4:02:51 pm PDT #4423 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
Also, saying "I'm ignoring you" means she is unclear on the concept.
I ::heart:: Ginger
Aw Empress, that's rough. I very recently had a very similar absolute end to a friendship. It was only five years (weird to say "only" about any friendship). And its hard.
MFNLaw had a front row seat for the final ugly year. It's been helpful having someone who sees it had become untenable, who can hardly believe there was ever a good part. When the hard parts come -- which so far mean mutual friends and activities -- her reminders that I did the right thing help me through.
Calli - Sep 08, 2013 4:54:19 pm PDT #4424 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
I'm sorry the friendship reached a point where it needed ending, Aimee. Even when they've turned toxic, it can be hard to do.