Monty: Whaddya mean she ain't my wife? Mal: She ain't your wife... cause she's married to me.

'Trash'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - May 22, 2013 12:56:44 pm PDT #435 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Ha. Yeah. It's somewhat my fault that I went to bed so late last night, but still.

I'm about to go take all my change to CoinStar so I have grocery money for the next week. Yep, it's like that.


sj - May 22, 2013 1:01:36 pm PDT #436 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ha. Yeah. It's somewhat my fault that I went to bed so late last night, but still.

Last night it was just tossing and turning because there was a huge storm and all my joints were aching, but I have been guilty of just going to bed late too.


smonster - May 22, 2013 1:50:29 pm PDT #437 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Xposting from facebook - I'm looking at insurance plans again, since COBRA is spendy and going to run out in a few months (before Obamacare fully kicks in). Anyone have advice, an individual plan they like, experience with a high-deductible HSA? I'd like to pay between $100-200/month and I need outpatient mental health care if at all possible.


Anne W. - May 22, 2013 2:01:07 pm PDT #438 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Thank you all for the condolences. I'm feeling as much relieved as I am sad - the poor little guy had a rough couple of days at the end.

Still, I got a bit weepy this afternoon when I came home, and my little buddy wasn't at the door meowing in impatience, waiting for me to come in. I also still need to deal with all of the cat parephenalia (beds, toys, etc.) that are around the house.


smonster - May 22, 2013 2:17:54 pm PDT #439 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh, Anne, that is so hard.

Well, I said (on fb) that I wanted a conversation about money! Boy did I fucking get one. It's still going, ninety-eight comments and counting. My friend N, who's backing the optimistic libertarian point of view, has suggested to me in a private conversation that I look into property management as a way to make extra money. ::sigh::


Steph L. - May 22, 2013 2:22:33 pm PDT #440 of 30002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I was just about to comment here that I want to throttle N. He sounds very much like the type of person who thinks it's super easy to get a home run...and ignores the part where he was born on third base, while other people don't even have a damn baseball bat. t /metaphors R us

In memememe news, I found out today that the publisher who wants to buy us has indeed signed a letter of intent. Which is still not a done deal, but damn close. That info isn't company-wide knowledge, but I believe we have another meeting tomorrow where everyone will officially find out.

I still have no idea of a timeline, as in, when the deal will be official, and how long after that we have to wrap things up.

I'm freaked out HARD.


smonster - May 22, 2013 2:29:15 pm PDT #441 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

He sounds very much like the type of person who thinks it's super easy to get a home run...and ignores the part where he was born on third base, while other people don't even have a damn baseball bat.

Yeah, he's got some serious Straight White Male privilege blinders on. I'm kind of flabbergasted because he is the nicest, most mild-mannered guy ever. Like, really. Kind and gentle and fairly intelligent. And, at least when I knew him, very passionate about the environment!


smonster - May 22, 2013 2:30:32 pm PDT #442 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hit post too soon. Oy, Steph. Sorry for all the work stress. I hope this all results in a much better job for you, but I know that does nothing to reduce the current worry.


Steph L. - May 22, 2013 2:33:44 pm PDT #443 of 30002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Well, I do definitely recognize that this scenario is the best option, because a sale will allow Big!Boss to offer us some kind of severance, whereas if the company went bankrupt, we'd all be shafted. (I don't actually know that we'll get severance, but I have every reason to believe we will.) And we'll get unemployment. So things are better than they could be, but still terrifying.

And I may be getting courthouse-married soon.


javachik - May 22, 2013 2:33:53 pm PDT #444 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Tep, I know it's the last thing you want to hear, but my spidey sense tells me that this is going to result in an awesome outcome for you; maybe not immediately, but definitely near term!