But I understand. You gave up everything you had to find me. And you found me broken. It's hard for you.

River ,'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Zenkitty - Aug 08, 2013 6:10:57 am PDT #2929 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Much much ~ma for Biyi's mother!


Laura - Aug 08, 2013 8:30:39 am PDT #2930 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Quick and easy ~ma for the Biyi mom.


Aims - Aug 08, 2013 8:38:42 am PDT #2931 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Prayers and thoughts for Biyi's mom and you guys, too, BT.


le nubian - Aug 08, 2013 8:41:40 am PDT #2932 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

good thoughts and wishes, bt.


Polter-Cow - Aug 08, 2013 8:42:23 am PDT #2933 of 30002
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Much ~ma for Biyi's mom and your family, billytea.


Scrappy - Aug 08, 2013 8:52:52 am PDT #2934 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

All the best outcome~ma for BiYi's mom.


Pix - Aug 08, 2013 9:20:28 am PDT #2935 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.

So much ~ma for Biyi's mother.

In addition to the ongoing evil of BoA regarding the never-ending, yet somehow EXPENSIVE, loan, this month they deposited last month's rent check again and therefore bounced this month's rent check.

After almost an hour on the phone, they will fix it, but what a clusterfuck. I cannot wait to run far, far away from them.


le nubian - Aug 08, 2013 9:25:28 am PDT #2936 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

In college when I barely had two nickels to rub together, I wrote a check to citibank for $6.50 (which was the balance of my credit card bill. I think I may have had $100 in my checking account at the time (if that).

the bank paid it out as $650.00. I had written several small checks (to my university, the grocery store, etc.) and they all bounced. of course they ran the check through a 2nd time (because apparently that is customary) and the checks bounced twice.

Each bounced check was a $25 fee.

So, my checking account was at -$1000 very very quickly. I made the bank write apology letters to all places where my check bounced, etc. but it took like 2-3 weeks for all of this to be resolved and my parents had to send me some emergency $$ so I could survive.

I am completely paranoid about banks and at 20 I had already learned this lesson.


Aims - Aug 08, 2013 9:25:56 am PDT #2937 of 30002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Not having health insurance sucks.

TMI: Turns out, I had a yeast infection and atopobium AND an abnormal pap smear - ASCUS, they tell me. So yeah - I get to go pay money for ANOTHER script in a time when every dollar is being saved for the moving costs.

Sometimes, I think FML.


omnis_audis - Aug 08, 2013 9:38:43 am PDT #2938 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Tons of health~ma to the Empress and Biyi-mom. And calm~ma for the two families.

I will subscribe to the "banks suck" newsletter. And I encourage folks to look into Credit Unions. I love mine. While no perfect. Far less hassle than any other bank gave me.