May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one.

Mal ,'Bushwhacked'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Feb 24, 2017 7:34:47 pm PST #29261 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I should not have put anything about dating on FB. As I may not be dating anyone in the morning.

There was a huge massive miscommunication and set of assumptions going on (both sides) and I'm not sure what will happen.


sj - Feb 25, 2017 4:45:28 am PST #29262 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm sorry, Hil.

I'm sorry, askye.

I'm sick. Probably a kidney infection. I'm on antibiotics, but I have a fever and feel awful. We're missing Stitch's first birthday party.


askye - Feb 25, 2017 5:44:48 am PST #29263 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I hope you feel benter soon!!


Laura - Feb 25, 2017 5:57:13 am PST #29264 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

{{Bitches}} Life needs to be less pain and drama.


askye - Feb 25, 2017 6:07:24 am PST #29265 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I need to call my dentist Monday about my jaw clenching it's out of control. The night guard helps keep my teeth from hurting but my jaw and neck hurts, my ears ache slightly and I have a headache.

Mostly thus is due to current events. I feel like I'm going to bite through the night gaurd .


smonster - Feb 25, 2017 3:22:41 pm PST #29266 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Blah, askye, I hate stuff like that.

sj, what the hell! That's no good.


Hil R. - Feb 25, 2017 6:53:33 pm PST #29267 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Blah. I hurt. Advil sucks. I'm hurting less than yesterday, but still hurting.

I didn't protest today, but if I'm feeling well enough, then I'll go to the sanctuary congregation teach-in tomorrow. I figure a teach-in will be mostly sitting down, so easier to handle. And there's a solidarity rally for trans kids on Thursday that I'd like to go to, if I can, but I'm not sure, because I'm going to have a long day on Friday.


erikaj - Feb 26, 2017 12:55:50 pm PST #29268 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

I hate the "So brave!" too, probably especially because I hear it when I feel weak, not strong. Not sure about the whole "Thanks for coming out," thing because there are definite times when it is more of a struggle, and it's nice to be appreciated. OTOH, everything I do is not always So Difficult and I don't really want to live my life as a human macro with "What's Your Excuse?" over my forehead.


askye - Feb 26, 2017 1:42:13 pm PST #29269 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Group was hard. We didn't even go over the info we are supposed to because we got to talking especially about anger.

And how people feel guilty about feeling angry and expressing the anger.

Especially at parents and (this wasn't me) when someone hates their parents for abusing them but are made to feel like uilty because it's their parent.

It was good but hard.


SuziQ - Feb 26, 2017 5:30:11 pm PST #29270 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I am so checked out of my current class. I just turned in a paper a week late (we can get an extension once a course) and missed this week's discussion. I did calculate my grade so far and the effect of letting those points go and I can still potentially earn an A. I just have one discussion and one paper left that are due next Sunday. Then I get a week off before my next class.