Up until the punching, it was a real nice party.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Zenkitty - Feb 13, 2017 1:48:34 pm PST #29148 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

My friends and family know not to ask me about next week, last minute plans work out best for me.

I'm fine with spontaneity, as long as I know it's going to happen.

with the test as it is, I could see someone who is very introverted getting a moderately high score.

I wondered as I was taking it if my introversion skewed the results.

I'm good at smalltalk because I was raised by my grandmother. Pretending to be a charming social butterfly was self-defense. I learned by watching Marilyn Monroe movies.

Also, a lifetime of observance, mimicry, and rehearsal helps me pass as more normal or ordinary. Some recovery after a half-hour of pretending normalcy in a friendly, crowded room is expected from an introvert, but the autistic garnish on the introvert sundae adds loads to recovery time.

Oh, exactly this, Beverly!

Several of those answers were skewed because of trained and learned behavior. Asked differently, they'd have gotten significantly different responses.

And this.

It's the nonplussed expression, the momentary silent gap in conversation, and the side-eye stare that does it.

And this.

See, this is why I love hanging out with you guys. You get me.

Group conversations are really tough. I get overwhelmed quickly, and my hearing literally starts to shut off. I didn't understand that before.

Honestly, I've learned so much about myself from hanging out with you guys. More than I ever learned from therapy or school.


Calli - Feb 13, 2017 1:58:15 pm PST #29149 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Yeah several of the on the spectrum questions were identical to Meyers-Briggs questions that put me firmly in the I zone.


Strix - Feb 13, 2017 3:08:40 pm PST #29150 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I got 23, but I'm not surprised at all. Most of my points come from social anxiety, but the rest are introversion, geekery and pure cussed bullheadedness.

That pretending with other kids question -- boy, I relate. I hated playing Barbies with other girls besides my sister. She may have scarred me with her fingernails, and I may have spit in her ear, but by God, she knew what the Bastille was and eagerly helped me make a Barbie guillotine.


Jessica - Feb 13, 2017 3:29:40 pm PST #29151 of 30002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I scored 29, but literally every question on there could have been answered with "it depends, what mood am I in and who else will be there?" I think I'm more just plain shy than anything else - if someone starts up a conversation with me, I'm more than happy to keep it going, but I hate introducing myself.


beth b - Feb 13, 2017 4:00:35 pm PST #29152 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

23. But really there were a number of questions that needed discussions - even when the answers were clear to me


Zenkitty - Feb 13, 2017 5:02:00 pm PST #29153 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I suspect that overthinking the questions is a characteristic of those of us who scored in the "sweet spot".


sumi - Feb 13, 2017 5:28:08 pm PST #29154 of 30002
Art Crawl!!!

Watching stuff live is hard - I keep wanting to FF through the ads.


Zenkitty - Feb 13, 2017 5:30:23 pm PST #29155 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Drives me crazy, sumi. I'm so spoiled by DVRs now! Whenever possible I record the thing and watch it about 8 minutes time-delayed so I can FF through annoying ads.


Hil R. - Feb 13, 2017 8:00:02 pm PST #29156 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I got 44. Didn't really surprise me.


sumi - Feb 13, 2017 8:18:08 pm PST #29157 of 30002
Art Crawl!!!

I got 25 - I think my ability to fantasize and be a big picture person balanced my dislike of socializing and other stuff that would have made my score higher.

ETA: How does ADD interact with the Asperger's spectrum?