I'm going to see to Wesley, see if he's still whimpering.

Giles ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Toddson - Feb 13, 2017 9:55:01 am PST #29138 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I suspected I was on the spectrum; interesting to see it confirmed.


Anne W. - Feb 13, 2017 10:12:35 am PST #29139 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

I'd be curious to see how a more comprehensive test distinguished various factors - with the test as it is, I could see someone who is very introverted getting a moderately high score.


Connie Neil - Feb 13, 2017 10:16:30 am PST #29140 of 30002
brillig

I'm surprisingly good at superficial small talk if I can get myself into the mood where I'm consciously attempting to deceive people I don't know that I'm a courteous person who cares about what they have to say. With people I know or people whose opinion I care about, I always feel like I'm imposing on them with inanities.


JohnSweden - Feb 13, 2017 10:36:13 am PST #29141 of 30002
I can't even.

18. Little or no. Who knew that my lack of attention span would keep me out of something?


EpicTangent - Feb 13, 2017 11:42:55 am PST #29142 of 30002
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I'd be curious to see how a more comprehensive test distinguished various factors - with the test as it is, I could see someone who is very introverted getting a moderately high score.

I was thinking this as well; like, I can do smalltalk, I just don't like it. So is that "abnormal"? Are there people who actually LIKE smalltalk? And one that was "Do your friends often tell you...?" And I thought, "No. But because my friends are nice people, not necessarily because it isn't true." So, yeah, introvert probably mucks up the scale a little.

I'm surprisingly good at superficial small talk if I can get myself into the mood where I'm consciously attempting to deceive people I don't know that I'm a courteous person who cares about what they have to say. With people I know or people whose opinion I care about, I always feel like I'm imposing on them with inanities.

Also, what Connie said.


Beverly - Feb 13, 2017 11:55:26 am PST #29143 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Also, a lifetime of observance, mimicry, and rehearsal helps me pass as more normal or ordinary. Some recovery after a half-hour of pretending normalcy in a friendly, crowded room is expected from an introvert, but the autistic garnish on the introvert sundae adds loads to recovery time.

Several of those answers were skewed because of trained and learned behavior. Asked differently, they'd have gotten significantly different responses.


Connie Neil - Feb 13, 2017 11:56:56 am PST #29144 of 30002
brillig

No one has ever commented on my behavior, but for all I know people get together to shake their heads and mutter disparagingly of me.


Beverly - Feb 13, 2017 12:08:19 pm PST #29145 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

It's the nonplussed expression, the momentary silent gap in conversation, and the side-eye stare that does it.


billytea - Feb 13, 2017 12:17:07 pm PST #29146 of 30002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I got 35. Not entirely surprised, but I think it's more social anxiety than being somewhere on the spectrum. (Not that one can entirely disentangle the two.)


askye - Feb 13, 2017 12:47:03 pm PST #29147 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I like social chit chat a lot of times. I'm not the best at it because I ramble on, soemtimes start talking about something and realize it may not be the best thing to say and also have trouble ending a conversation. Oh and it's hard to read non verbal cues.

There are lots of autistic people who are extroverted but they still have the same issues.

Conversations with a group is really hard for me, I struggle to figure out when to say something or where the natural breaks in the conversation happen to say something. So I wait too late or talk over someone and it's stressful and adds extra anxiety. Also more than one person means extra non verbal cues and langauge to follow and possibly not having long enough to figure it out because I have to look at other people