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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sarameg - Dec 17, 2016 9:05:51 am PST #28378 of 30002

Yikes, omnis! I just (monday) had lapro to kick my rogue gallbladder to the curb. I don't know if you are keeping yours, but getting holes poked in the guts is...something else. Wishing you a quick and uncomplicated recovery. Mine has been, but I just had a damned huge stone and deformed gallbladder, no infection.


omnis_audis - Dec 17, 2016 9:15:52 am PST #28379 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Well, another update. So there is also a bulge in the bile ducts. They don't know if it's a stone from the uppity gallbladder or a thickening of the duct (which would reduce its interior size). Since I'm not in pain (which is confusing everyone) invasive radiological wants to wait and see if antibiotics do the trick. But further tests need doing to see what the bulge is. Could be MRI, if the rod in my back is happy with that. Could be a camera down my throat. Could be both. Could be more. So we are wait/see that antibiotics do the trick, and can I do MRI. Likely not released until Tuesday at earliest. Possibly a week.


Laura - Dec 17, 2016 9:23:31 am PST #28380 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I am sorry about the extended stay! When my MIL had her gall bladder out it was the talk of the hospital that she had been walking around with all the blockage and huge stones. Some people don't feel the pain while others are in extreme pain. Bodies = weird.


Java cat - Dec 17, 2016 11:25:16 am PST #28381 of 30002
Not javachik

I just looked up malignant hyperthermia. Wow, that's a new one to me. We got a bunch of things in first responder certification ("EMT lite") that you don't get in first aid, but not that. Glad you are getting answers, now for results.


Java cat - Dec 17, 2016 11:33:59 am PST #28382 of 30002
Not javachik

Maybe this is helpful smonster? Y'all have this, [link] which does a lot of Contracting. (The place I'm retired from is the SF Bay Area analog to this agency.) If you do the paperwork to get yourself certified as a dbe and a wbe - - disadvantaged business Enterprise and women business Enterprise -- and get yourself listed, you'll get information anytime there's a contract. Contractors are always looking for dbe and wbe subcontractors. The contracts that are listed right now R4 technical work, but all kinds of stuff comes through. I don't remember if we issued a proposal for this so I might be arguing against my own advocacy, but we hired somebody to drive all around on the freeways and take photographs of all the call boxes. I always thought that sounded like a really good job.


Java cat - Dec 17, 2016 11:35:28 am PST #28383 of 30002
Not javachik

It's under " working with rpc"


Sue - Dec 17, 2016 12:17:10 pm PST #28384 of 30002
hip deep in pie

Omins, my dad had gallstones trapped in his bile duct, and they used the scope to widen the duct, flush the stones out and were done. (This was after several days of antibiotics.) Much less invasive than surgery and they didn't need to remove his gall bladder.


Calli - Dec 17, 2016 3:21:58 pm PST #28385 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Omnis, I'm glad they found something that looks treatable and have a plan with which to move forward.

smonster, I'm glad our schedules might intersect. I'll be leaving on the 23rd and coming back the 27th (weather permitting), but there's a far bit of overlap.


quester - Dec 18, 2016 2:33:32 pm PST #28386 of 30002
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

WOW omins! Ouch!

{{monster}}

So, I had a sucky week. My heat was out and my management company was not answering my calls or emails. then Thursday, the heat was back on.

Friday, I missed a call from them on my cell.

Saturday, I checked my messages to see if there was one from my sister about bringing a card table to the family Xmas gathering and found instead the message from the management company that I was behind on my rent and they would start eviction procedures on Tuesday if I didn't pay it by Monday.

So, very upset now I checked my bank account on-line and there was the rent payment and the payment installment for the heat treatment last summer for bed bugs. Both cleared the bank.

So now I'm very upset and have to go face my whole family with this on my mind. And I couldn't keep it together and wound up telling my siblings what was going on.

I am now pissed and have plans to go to the bank tomorrow and get the print out of the payments and take them to the management office and ask WTF is going on.

My niece who's a semester away from her law degree says they can't do this without cause. But, I'm wondering if the heat thing was deliberate and they are trying to passive/aggressively get me to move out.

This company bought my building early in the summer and it's been drama ever since.

I don't really have the money to move. I was already upset about how my paycheck isn't really covering my bills anymore. my checking account was down to 3 dollars the day before my last paycheck hit. Between not having any savings and barely making it though every 2 weeks.

I don't need this drama but I'm kind of stuck and getting more upset about it. If I hadn't been such a mess at the family party, I wouldn't have told them anything. Now, I might be able to get help to move but what I want is answers and to be left alone.


askye - Dec 18, 2016 3:02:02 pm PST #28387 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

((quester)) I hope that this was just some sort of weird mistake.

Turns out yesterday I went to work an hour early...I didn't realize because I'd written it down wrong, so I left early today and that kind of made up for it.