We knocked 'em deader!

Willow ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Dec 12, 2016 3:48:56 pm PST #28313 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Anyone around to beta an email for me? It's for a company that might have an opening, but I don't think I'm supposed to know that, so I'm coming at it obliquely.


meara - Dec 12, 2016 4:10:46 pm PST #28314 of 30002

Sure smonster, email or fb or whatwvwr


smonster - Dec 12, 2016 5:17:10 pm PST #28315 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Thank you, meara, Insent to profile addy.


meara - Dec 12, 2016 6:01:50 pm PST #28316 of 30002

Just emailed back smonster--I think it sounds pretty good!


askye - Dec 13, 2016 9:34:40 am PST #28317 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Therapy was... partly me venting about politics and then coming to some personal realizations. Crying a lot.

Then I went to the grocery store (and cried in the grocery store) but my shopping done and did not have a single moment of anxiety about being in the actual store (a big deal).

And I realized some other things - emailed my therapist so we can talk about it next week and then also shared with Mom...who was supportive.

But wait there is more! I called Verizon and talked to them about my phone and the disconnecting wireless and he guy was relaly nice and figured out it's as software failure and I'm resetting my phone.


Toddson - Dec 13, 2016 11:36:47 am PST #28318 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

askye, you're adulting! congratulations!


SuziQ - Dec 13, 2016 12:07:39 pm PST #28319 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Adulting Tuesday, let's make it a thing. My adulting was self care and getting my arse to the rec center to work out. I feel so much better - I guess I'm finding those workout endorphins. I always thought that was a myth (at least I have never felt a runner's-high {walker's-high}?).


beekaytee - Dec 13, 2016 12:22:09 pm PST #28320 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

My mission is to preserve and promote beautiful things, ideas, and people.

Oh, smonster, I _love_ this. Well done you.

Moving toward beauty, rather than from pain, might be more fun.

I've been swamped...like feeling like drowning...lately, but I'm coming up for air now.

I wonder where you could find a woman who supports the arts, or social justice, who needs an assistant who moves around, serves as a conduit between that person and other people doing good, and helps to deliver/formulate plans.

Not behind a desk.


smonster - Dec 13, 2016 1:55:17 pm PST #28321 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh, smonster, I _love_ this. Well done you.

Well, I would never have come up with it without your help. I like that it covers my love of pop culture, feminism, pimping stuff I like, recycling, preservation, etc.


smonster - Dec 13, 2016 2:06:18 pm PST #28322 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

And I'm glad you are starting to feel a little less overwhelmed. Have things settled down with the angry ex-client?

Also, that's an interesting idea, I will ponder. I do know some folks involved in the arts here, they might have ideas.

Had lunch with current boss today. Failing anything else, he about has me talked into transitioning from working for him to starting my own thing. I have a colleague at my other job who is also contemplating starting a preservation contracting company, so we could potentially team up, but our personalities don't mesh that great right now, and we don't spend that much time together. We g t along much better than we did when she first joined the company, though. Gotta choose an underserved niche… if this pocket door thing goes well this weekend, that's a possibility.