Take jobs as they come -- and we'll never be under the heel of nobody ever again. No matter how long the arm of the Alliance might get, we'll just get ourselves a little further.

Mal ,'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - Aug 30, 2016 1:16:00 pm PDT #26099 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Very sweet kitties. I love a sleeping cat's face.

When I am stressed, I watch this. [link] I am not a mom, but something about it really goes deep. It works like a charm.


WindSparrow - Aug 30, 2016 2:14:37 pm PDT #26100 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Babies! The Blue-point looks a lot like Harvey as a baby, and the two flame-points were like his sisters.


Steph L. - Aug 30, 2016 4:34:52 pm PDT #26101 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm trying unsuccessfully not to freak out. Tim had an appointment scheduled with the pulmonologist for October 11. Then this morning he had the echocardiogram and CT scan of his lungs. This afternoon the pulmonologist's scheduler called Tim and said the pulmonologist wants to see him September 12.

That...doesn't seem good. Why else move up his appointment?


meara - Aug 30, 2016 4:51:45 pm PDT #26102 of 30002

Ooh. That is a little scary, Teppy. But also entirely possible it's something stupid like "oh, the doctor had an opening earlier and Tim was on the list" or "the note in the file said they'd prefer to see him before he starts new RA therapy, and the doc figures he should start sooner not later". If it were something horrible, they'd probably fit him in sooner than two weeks? I hope?


Steph L. - Aug 30, 2016 4:58:19 pm PDT #26103 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

But also entirely possible it's something stupid like "oh, the doctor had an opening earlier and Tim was on the list"

He is on the cancellation list, but the scheduling lady didn't say "Dr So-and-so has a cancellation" (and who cancels 2 weeks out?); she said "Dr So-and-so wants to see you September 12."

If it were something horrible, they'd probably fit him in sooner than two weeks? I hope?

I want to believe that, but I feel like it's something horrible but this is still the soonest they can squeeze him in, because he's a new patient.

I mean, what doctor moves up an already existing appointment to say "Hey, it's all good!"? That doesn't happen.

Tim's test results should be posted online in his healthcare web portal thingie, I would guess in the next day or 2. So we'll probably have some idea of what the results are, sooner than the doctor appointment.


Laura - Aug 30, 2016 5:21:15 pm PDT #26104 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

It is possible that they routinely make appointments far out in the future pending test results and after the office is notified that the tests are completed they check the schedule for current openings. That would not be unusual behavior for my physician offices. They don't like to waste time with appointments when the ordered test results aren't complete.


WindSparrow - Aug 30, 2016 5:28:57 pm PDT #26105 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I don't blame you for freaking out, Steph.


Laura - Aug 30, 2016 5:32:05 pm PDT #26106 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Also, what WS said! I would be freaking out too, just wanted to point out that in my experience with lots of doctors this does happen for mundane reasons.


Steph L. - Aug 30, 2016 5:44:19 pm PDT #26107 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

just wanted to point out that in my experience with lots of doctors this does happen for mundane reasons.

I couldn't think of a single mundane reason for moving up an appointment, so THANK YOU. Seriously.


Steph L. - Aug 30, 2016 5:48:29 pm PDT #26108 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I know I'm tense and upset right now, but I feel like I would react this way on a good day: on FB I referred to having T. Rex arms after lifting weights at the gym, and one guy cannot understand why I would be sore and is trying to fix my gym routine. He asked if I stretch after lifting.

WHY NO WHAT IS THIS THING YOU CALL "STRETCHING" I HAVE NEVER HEARD OF IT.

He just seems stunned that anyone would ever be sore after a workout and needs to mansplain at me about it. I'm about to tell him to go read some weightlifting forums and ask THEM if they stretch.