I don't blame you for freaking out, Steph.
Never goes smooth. How come it never goes smooth?
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WindSparrow - Aug 30, 2016 5:28:57 pm PDT #26105 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Laura - Aug 30, 2016 5:32:05 pm PDT #26106 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
Also, what WS said! I would be freaking out too, just wanted to point out that in my experience with lots of doctors this does happen for mundane reasons.
Steph L. - Aug 30, 2016 5:44:19 pm PDT #26107 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
just wanted to point out that in my experience with lots of doctors this does happen for mundane reasons.
I couldn't think of a single mundane reason for moving up an appointment, so THANK YOU. Seriously.
Steph L. - Aug 30, 2016 5:48:29 pm PDT #26108 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I know I'm tense and upset right now, but I feel like I would react this way on a good day: on FB I referred to having T. Rex arms after lifting weights at the gym, and one guy cannot understand why I would be sore and is trying to fix my gym routine. He asked if I stretch after lifting.
WHY NO WHAT IS THIS THING YOU CALL "STRETCHING" I HAVE NEVER HEARD OF IT.
He just seems stunned that anyone would ever be sore after a workout and needs to mansplain at me about it. I'm about to tell him to go read some weightlifting forums and ask THEM if they stretch.
Nora Deirdre - Aug 30, 2016 5:52:11 pm PDT #26109 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Oh, Steph. I'm so sorry this has been so stressful on every level. I'm hoping that the rescheduled appointment helps get answers quicker and not more stress.
I am having such a hard time bouncing back from what I am calling the "unfortunate incident." I can't focus or think clearly (let alone write.) I feel like such a loser. Fuck this shit.
Steph L. - Aug 30, 2016 5:53:45 pm PDT #26110 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I am having such a hard time bouncing back from what I am calling the "unfortunate incident." I can't focus or think clearly (let alone write.) I feel like such a loser. Fuck this shit.
I think that's a normal reaction, Nora. NOT a loser reaction. It's barely been 24 hours. Give yourself a little more time.
sj - Aug 30, 2016 5:55:39 pm PDT #26111 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
What Teppy said. It's completely normal to still be freaked out.
Connie Neil - Aug 30, 2016 6:02:29 pm PDT #26112 of 30002
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I'm thinking yours is the normal reaction. It's not like you're an embedded war correspondent who can go "Hm, they're starting early today, I wonder if they have to be somewhere later?"
Nora Deirdre - Aug 30, 2016 6:05:31 pm PDT #26113 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
"Hm, they're starting early today, I wonder if they have to be somewhere later?"
Ha!
Hil R. - Aug 30, 2016 6:36:05 pm PDT #26114 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Yeah, I saw that guy going on about the T-Rex arms, and I was like, seriously? It's a new concept to you that people are sore after working out?
And, yeah, I think anybody would be freaked out after what happened, Nora.