Well some friends of Buffy played a funny joke and they took her stuff and now she wants us to help get it back from her friends who sleep all day and have no tans.

Xander ,'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Jan 19, 2016 3:07:27 pm PST #23044 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Trying to decide what to do with the non-vegan food. I could offer it to my neighbors, but that seems weird, so I'll probably just end up throwing it out, which seems wasteful.


Zenkitty - Jan 19, 2016 3:52:44 pm PST #23045 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I could offer it to my neighbors, but that seems weird

My neighbors have offered me their non-vegetarian food before, when they've accidentally gotten some. I appreciate it and find it a decent solution to the dual problems of (a) not throwing away food and (b) I don't cook. But we're already friendly, so I can see how it might feel uncomfortable if you don't already know each other.


Hil R. - Jan 19, 2016 4:06:34 pm PST #23046 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I know them a little bit, but not really well enough to feel comfortable with that. Plus, I'm already in pajamas, and I don't feel like changing into real clothes.

The part of this order that is vegan is really spicy. I could choose from a spice scale from 0 to 10, and I went with 3. Usually, I like moderately spicy stuff, but this is really hot. I can't imagine what 10 would be.


Liese S. - Jan 19, 2016 4:33:20 pm PST #23047 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I had a really bad reminder this weekend.

I'm sorry to hear this. But you have come a long way and are doing well in so many ways. Try to not get too hung up on the rough bits.


beekaytee - Jan 19, 2016 4:35:32 pm PST #23048 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

DavidS - Jan 19, 2016 7:44:33 pm PST #23049 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I had a really bad reminder this weekend.

Was it me?!


sj - Jan 20, 2016 5:13:23 am PST #23050 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm sorry, Tom.

I'm sorry, bonny. I saw your post before you deleted, but I wasn't sure what to say.


Tom Scola - Jan 20, 2016 5:19:22 am PST #23051 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

Was it me?!

This weekend I got to hang out with both msbelle and you! Awesome! Except it made me, like, really anxious. And I didn't realize just how anxious it was making me until I had some scary short-term memory loss issues. And if I can't just hang out with two of my best friends in the world and just feel comfortable, what hope do I have of ever having a real social life, or, you know, a girlfriend?

I've been talking to my therapist about it all week, and right now I'm feeling better and not such in a dark place, but, still, a setback that I need to recover from.


WindSparrow - Jan 20, 2016 5:35:46 am PST #23052 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Gah, Tom. I can't imagine how scary and frustrating that must be. May your work with your therapist make progress that satisfies you.

Bonny, I didn't see your post. But you know I'm in your side, whatever is going on in your life.


Laura - Jan 20, 2016 5:52:06 am PST #23053 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry, Tom. I sincerely hope that you find solutions to your anxieties very soon. I understand how much work you are doing to make that happen. The rest of us wish you could appreciate you as much as we do.

Sitting here working hard and being annoyed that I am listening to my sister snore. This happens too often, not just with her. Then I feel bad about being annoyed. I guess I should learn to nap, but then I would be upset about not working.