Illyria: Wesley's dead. I'm feeling grief for him. I can't seem to control it. I wish to do more violence. Spike: Well, wishes just happen to be horses today.

'Not Fade Away'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Jan 07, 2016 12:37:35 pm PST #22942 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I like the arch!


Burrell - Jan 07, 2016 1:24:14 pm PST #22943 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Okay, big difference there. I like the new shape you have here. Bit of drama, even with very simple make up, so that's nice. I also like the one in the Sept 2015 pic, which looks like it may be closer to your natural line, just cleaner.

I am the lazy brow gal. I like my natural line so usually all I do is clean it up a bit, if that.


meara - Jan 07, 2016 1:56:18 pm PST #22944 of 30002

The one thing that drives me nuts about my brows is that they wing up at the ends. Like a Vulcan. I trim them and try to brush them into shape and it really never works. Makes me nuts.


Liese S. - Jan 07, 2016 2:25:42 pm PST #22945 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Ok, yeah, that's all good feedback.

And yeah, mine require more than just cleaning it up! I used to refuse to do anything with them at all on race-based beauty standards premises, but also because it was the 90's and I would have had to do a ridiculous amount of plucking to get even close to what people were doing, whereupon it looked completely unnatural on me. I only started recently (well, you can see, with the dates of the photos) since the thicker "natural" brow was a more achievable target.

I know what you mean, meara, it's shaping the ends of mine that's causing all this strife! Ha! I pulled them in here, which I think is ok, but I'll have to live with it a while and see. I may split the difference.

Then next up I'll have to figure out my go-to glasses-friendly eyeshadow. These new glasses (super similar but still) are better, but I still have to figure out a balance where my eye stuff is visible within the context of the glasses but not overdone. I'm content with my contouring right now, although I'll have to tweak it a little for the new brows.


Beverly - Jan 07, 2016 2:54:24 pm PST #22946 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Liese, I like your brows here. The high point of the arch is over the center of your iris, which is more natural and a softer, more approachable look. The brow today is a straight upward diagonal, the high point of which is almost over the outside corner of your eye, which isn't as natural a curve. It flattens the bone structure across your eyes and brow, and is more severe. It's a good Dom look, actually. But otherwise, the brow should arch at no more than three-quarters of the width of the eye. More, and it tends to look more unnatural. IMO, of course.


Liese S. - Jan 07, 2016 5:03:42 pm PST #22947 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Ok, see, this is why I have you people! So that shot is the other side, so lemme get one that's more head on so we're comparing apples to apples. Ignore the bloodshot, it's been a rough couple of days. [link]

The only one where you can see both brows in that March photoshoot is the fuck you shot, so forgive the attitude: [link] You might need to zoom for the comparison, or I could crop it. Maybe I should crop it. Here: [link]

So, what I was trying to do was the thing where you draw a line from the nose to the pupil to the tip of the arch. Although, I experienced some confusion about whether that meant the tip of the nose or the side of the nose and/or the outside edge of the pupil, etc. And I think because my eyes are so small and my brows so heavy maybe that advice isn't quite right.

So if I aim for 3/4's the width of the eye, I'd have to play with where it actually does go back down, I think. Which I think maybe would work now that the overall brow is thinner. Ok, I'll mess around with that next.

Thanks, Bev!

And sorry for clogging up the thread! If I had local girlfriends and/or aestheticians, I could work this out here, but I need y'all! Still amused that I'm learning how to do this at forty, but hey.


Pix - Jan 07, 2016 5:06:20 pm PST #22948 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.

I have no opinion about brows. I DO have opinions about expensive but oh-so-worth-it flip flops. I love love love my Sanuks. They're made out of the same material as yoga mats, and a $45 pair will easily last me a year or two.


Steph L. - Jan 07, 2016 5:34:10 pm PST #22949 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

So if I aim for 3/4's the width of the eye, I'd have to play with where it actually does go back down, I think.

See, I don't think the high point of your arch is too far to the side. I like it.


Scrappy - Jan 07, 2016 5:37:35 pm PST #22950 of 30002
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I actually like it, too, but it is less "natural." This is making me want to clean up my scraggly brows. Having bangs means I kind of forget about them for long periods.


meara - Jan 07, 2016 5:43:07 pm PST #22951 of 30002

I think I mostly just love the intensity of the old "fuck you" photos!