Ben: I didn't ask for any of this. I just want to be normal. Gronx: I wanted to be an underwear model. We play the hand we're dealt.

'Touched'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Jul 21, 2015 3:39:22 pm PDT #20702 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

For fifty bucks, I would be a wiseass and tell this person that talks about Planned Parenthood killing the innocent either Western-style "Some folks need killing." or that my fictional sister had a sonogram and the kid looked at me funny, but I totes don't want to be on Fox News today even with "loofah" in tow.


erikaj - Jul 21, 2015 3:45:31 pm PDT #20703 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

(Look, I don't really feel that way about babies...I like them and feel sad sometimes that they can't be a part of what I used to call my Life's Plan(TM) What gets my back up is that they write this pompous bull as if I'm gonna say "Thank you, Avenging Stranger with a Penis...I guess I let my foolish lady passions overwhelm me as I grieve my worthless, barren life." On the other hand, nobody gave me the fifty bucks, either.


askye - Jul 21, 2015 4:04:16 pm PDT #20704 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Thanks.

sj I wish there was something any of you can do but there's nothing it's just trying to accept where I am in my life right now without judgement (radical acceptance) and figure out how to live with it and through it.

I wish someone could say - this is what you need to do. I'm going to work on pros and cons lists for a few things, not just the DBT group and then figure things out.

I really want to stay home tomorrow becuase I'm in such turmoil but that's not the right choice so I'll go to work. At least it won't be so hot.


Typo Boy - Jul 21, 2015 4:04:26 pm PDT #20705 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

If I'd had the 50 bucks... I did not think that represented your opinion, just that it would have been a funny parody of right wind (not a typo) tough talk.


sj - Jul 21, 2015 4:35:47 pm PDT #20706 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Askye, that sounds like a good plan. I'm sorry it's not easier.

I survived the day, but I guess I overdid it because I'm exhausted and weepy tonight. I have plans tomorrow but I suspect after that I should just stick close to home unless someone else is driving. It's just too much for me at this point.


Vortex - Jul 21, 2015 4:52:10 pm PDT #20707 of 30002
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Sorry, love.

Vortex Health Follow Up - Went back to discuss tests with doctor. Blood work and CAT scan all normal. No explanation for said symptoms, but I will hydrate more in the future.


DebetEsse - Jul 21, 2015 4:52:54 pm PDT #20708 of 30002
Woe to the fucking wicked.

askye, it sounds like you are using the tools (when you said that about wanting to stay home, I thought "Oh! Opposite action!"). I know it doesn't seem like it, but digging out of a hole is not a quick process. I can't offer "I've been there" support, but all I can offer is "you're doing the work, which is all that can be done" encouragement.


sj - Jul 21, 2015 4:54:04 pm PDT #20709 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm glad the results of the tests were normal. It has been hot and humid lately so I hope hydrating helps.


erikaj - Jul 21, 2015 4:55:52 pm PDT #20710 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Glad you can appreciate it, Typo. I was, like, a heartbeat away from posting, before I pictured it as a meme headlined "Every bit as callous as you think...and MORE," and that's a lot to put my family through to screw with some fucknut because I'm bored and he's being ridiculous.


Laura - Jul 21, 2015 5:29:38 pm PDT #20711 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

"Every bit as callous as you think...and MORE,"

NATLBSB

Yay for good results, Vortex. Consider a chiropractor as adjustments fixed that problem for me. I had it often when I did race training.