sj, my babies usually slept in onesies wrapped in a baby blanket burrito. Bev is right, trust your wee one to tell you what she wants. You'll quickly get down a rhythm, what to try first when you hear her cry: dirty diaper? too warm or too cold? hungry? tired? Before you know it, you will just know what each particular cry means.
Maybe I've always been here.
Early ,'Objects In Space'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Burrell - Jun 23, 2015 4:45:19 pm PDT #20131 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
sj - Jun 23, 2015 5:05:51 pm PDT #20132 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Before you know it, you will just know what each particular cry means.
Promise? It's normal to feel completely unprepared at this point in pregnancy, right?
DavidS - Jun 23, 2015 5:07:12 pm PDT #20133 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Promise? It's normal to feel completely unprepared at this point in pregnancy, right?
Traditionally one feels completely unprepared when you arrive back at home from the hospital with a new baby: "Why did they let us leave with a baby? We've never done this before!"
Ginger - Jun 23, 2015 5:09:10 pm PDT #20134 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
From what I've heard, if you felt prepared, you'd be deluding yourself.
sj - Jun 23, 2015 5:23:48 pm PDT #20135 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Traditionally one feels completely unprepared when you arrive back at home from the hospital with a new baby: "Why did they let us leave with a baby? We've never done this before!"
So, are you saying it's too early for me to feel this unprepared?
In less panicked news our friend K will be putting the dragon decals up in the nursery on Saturday! Both grandmothers to be are perplexed about why we're putting up dragons in a baby girl's room.
DavidS - Jun 23, 2015 5:41:43 pm PDT #20136 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
So, are you saying it's too early for me to feel this unprepared?
I'm saying you are exactly the right amount of unprepared.
Burrell - Jun 23, 2015 5:48:53 pm PDT #20137 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Promise? It's normal to feel completely unprepared at this point in pregnancy, right?
Feeling unprepared comes with the territory. You're doing fine.
sj - Jun 23, 2015 6:00:53 pm PDT #20138 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Thanks, everyone. I've been getting a lot of strange looks from people (strangers) when I mention my pregnancy, like they're surprised and they aren't sure whether they should be congratulating me or apologizing to me. I'm assuming it's a disability thing because I'm quite obviously very pregnant at this point, but it's making me uncomfortable and probably more insecure about everything than I should be.
WindSparrow - Jun 23, 2015 9:03:05 pm PDT #20139 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
eirka, you aren't wrong about Deray. That man has some serious discipline.
Whereas I accidentally clicked post on a tweet I'd meant to delete. It was one of the snarky ones - I usually read 'em to Daniel then delete and reform a more rational reply. As snark goes, it'll hardly flay the target alive. But Daniel said, "Don't worry about it. No one will notice. It's just the internet." Isn't that like saying "What could go wrong?"
askye - Jun 24, 2015 5:08:22 am PDT #20140 of 30002
Thrive to spite them
I made it through almost 2 hours of my 4 hour shift and had to come home because of anxiety.
I'm pretty sure I know why. And it's a combination of factors that I'll have to deal with. Well one I won't they redid our store and it was a mess and disorganized in the back and that was an issue and I'm hot. If work in the warehouse I have to figure out something to keep cool.
I feel like I failed. I also feel like I did this on purpose to prove to my therapist I 'm not ready for 3 days of work even though she suggested it and didn't push it.
I wish I had skills to do some job with minimal interaction with people.