I go online sometimes, but everyone's spelling is really bad. It's... depressing.

Tara ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Jan 16, 2015 8:16:45 pm PST #15772 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Sweet fancy links, smonster! Damn those are spanky.


meara - Jan 16, 2015 8:51:17 pm PST #15773 of 30002

You're hot, smonster, so I'm sure you'll be smokin'!


Atropa - Jan 16, 2015 9:27:23 pm PST #15774 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I would say "They have shops in Denmark", but I fear many of your items would be harder to reasonably substitute.

I have an outfit that can be folded verrrrrry small and put in my carry-on, because I am paranoid.


Callaluna - Jan 16, 2015 11:04:22 pm PST #15775 of 30002

We have also made it clear to Luna that we couldn't care less who she loves. Which has made things interesting already. She decided over the summer that she would be marrying one of her best friends, a girl whose family is Muslim and not exactly openminded. We told her that was fine, expecting her to forget about it by the time school started. She didn't, and the first day proudly announced to her friend that she'd been chosen for the envious position of "person I will marry." The friend was horrified and told her every day for a week that girls could not marry girls. Every day she'd come home and tell us that, and every day we'd explain that while girls marrying girls was not ok in her friend's family because of their religion, it is in fact legal in our country and perfectly acceptable in our family. The whole thing is a bit complicated for a four year old, I think. I noticed that recently she has only crowned boys with the "person I will marry" title. Which I suspect is because of peer pressure. Grrrr.


erikaj - Jan 17, 2015 3:56:31 am PST #15776 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Yeah, maybe Owen is just too young, but it's good not to treat him like that's weird if it's so...it took me a long time, too. To crush on people, I mean.(although I do sort of think BFF feelings do have an erotic element, looking back now. So no wonder Calla's daughter feels confused.) I wish I could see Copenhagen--that's where my great-grandparents were from.


Zenkitty - Jan 17, 2015 4:02:27 am PST #15777 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

smonster, congrats on new glasses and contacts! Looking forward to seeing you in those frames!

Ugh, I feel like hammered crap this morning. And I think the chicken salad I ate for breakfast had gone off, because now I'm nauseous.


Steph L. - Jan 17, 2015 5:21:01 am PST #15778 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

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Also slightly nauseated as my brain adjusts back to contacts and a new prescription

That's the WORST. My head hates me for at least 2 days after new glasses.


smonster - Jan 17, 2015 5:57:41 am PST #15779 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Steph, that is so lovely! I'm glad she has you and Tim to talk to.

Now that my grandfather is dead, I'm considering coming out to my mom's side of the family mostly because I want to be visible and an ally for anyone who might need it. One cousin knows (total Buffista spirit baby) and she was like, super psyched to have a queer cousin. It was cute.


Anne W. - Jan 17, 2015 6:27:42 am PST #15780 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Steph, that is awesome.


Anne W. - Jan 17, 2015 6:29:18 am PST #15781 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.