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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Jan 17, 2015 3:56:31 am PST #15776 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Yeah, maybe Owen is just too young, but it's good not to treat him like that's weird if it's so...it took me a long time, too. To crush on people, I mean.(although I do sort of think BFF feelings do have an erotic element, looking back now. So no wonder Calla's daughter feels confused.) I wish I could see Copenhagen--that's where my great-grandparents were from.


Zenkitty - Jan 17, 2015 4:02:27 am PST #15777 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

smonster, congrats on new glasses and contacts! Looking forward to seeing you in those frames!

Ugh, I feel like hammered crap this morning. And I think the chicken salad I ate for breakfast had gone off, because now I'm nauseous.


Steph L. - Jan 17, 2015 5:21:01 am PST #15778 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

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Also slightly nauseated as my brain adjusts back to contacts and a new prescription

That's the WORST. My head hates me for at least 2 days after new glasses.


smonster - Jan 17, 2015 5:57:41 am PST #15779 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Steph, that is so lovely! I'm glad she has you and Tim to talk to.

Now that my grandfather is dead, I'm considering coming out to my mom's side of the family mostly because I want to be visible and an ally for anyone who might need it. One cousin knows (total Buffista spirit baby) and she was like, super psyched to have a queer cousin. It was cute.


Anne W. - Jan 17, 2015 6:27:42 am PST #15780 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Steph, that is awesome.


Anne W. - Jan 17, 2015 6:29:18 am PST #15781 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Trudy Booth - Jan 17, 2015 6:51:26 am PST #15782 of 30002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Like Buffista Island won't be TROPICAL?!

It can't be TOO hot ALL the time. And snow is fun. We can have a nice snow capped mountain and little cabins up there for sledding and skiing and General winter wonderland purposes.

I despise cleaning the cat box and litter that surrounds it. My surprisingly effective solution has been a top-entry box lined with a garbage bag and a thinnish depth of litter. There is a layer of baking soda between bag and box so if there are any breeches it absorbs. She doesn't track out any litter and Every week I chuck the bag and change the soda if needed. No smell, no tracking, no scooping... it's pretty much glorious.


Zenkitty - Jan 17, 2015 6:59:28 am PST #15783 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Steph, you are awesome and your niece is brave, and lucky to have you to talk to.


Steph L. - Jan 17, 2015 7:02:08 am PST #15784 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I feel bad for her, because I asked her if she told her parents (who are, in general, really fantastic; I lucked out so hard in the in-law lottery), and she said yeah, but they don't really get it, and her mom was basically like, "Well, once you meet someone, you'll figure it out." Facepalm.


erikaj - Jan 17, 2015 7:05:43 am PST #15785 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Sometimes I wish I were ace, but only so my life and my mind would match more.