They should film that story and show it every Christmas.

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Burrell - Nov 01, 2014 2:15:03 pm PDT #14227 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Sounds promising, Hil


Laura - Nov 01, 2014 4:48:29 pm PDT #14228 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Have fun, Hil!

I have a date day with DH tomorrow. We are going to the Dolphins game with a friend. Tailgating starts around 10am, then I think the game is maybe at 1pm. 50 yard line seats.

I'm bringing spinach/artichoke dip and vegetarian chili to scarf down on tortilla chips. Also rum spiked lemon/limeade. Cookies too. The boys are eating various meaty stuff.

Both of my sons were given the option of going with dad, but one is hunting and the other is going to a BBQ with friends, so football for me and my sweety.


DebetEsse - Nov 01, 2014 7:05:09 pm PDT #14229 of 30002
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Nice, Hil!

meara, I use a Diva cup, and, yeah, it's more than a little of a mess and feels weird, though not exactly uncomfortable, so I pretty much only empty it at home (or in a home-like bathroom like a hotel room). I have not had any trouble with that, as far as...having waited too long. Does that help?


smonster - Nov 01, 2014 8:20:56 pm PDT #14230 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

My parents are visiting. I am drunk. These two things are connected. OY.

meara, I use a Diva cup as well. It took a little getting used to but I hate hate HATE using tampons now. Empty morning and night and don't think about it otherwise. At times I've had leakage issues and used cloth pads as liners but mostly it's not a problem. Since I only deal with it twice a day it's at home or in a private bathroom like a hotel. YMMV. There used to be a community on lj with all kinds of info and comparisons but I don't know if it still exists.


meara - Nov 01, 2014 9:13:05 pm PDT #14231 of 30002

Thanks y'all. I may look into getting one, but I figure it's good to know this is an option. I think I figured out part of what I was doing wrong, but them had different issues today and gave up for the moment. I think my big concern/issue is the price--the others are more expensive, so it's hard to take a chance in case I don't like one.


Hil R. - Nov 02, 2014 11:20:12 am PST #14232 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

am so sick of this whole job hunt process.

I am also sick of teaching three identical classes each day. It is so difficult to start from the beginning of a topic and explain everything slowly for the third time in four hours. My brain keeps saying, "You already said this! You don't need to say it again!" but I do, because I said it to other students.


Rick - Nov 03, 2014 4:49:02 am PST #14233 of 30002

Hil, I know a lecturer who teachers her two identical classes in different orders because she found that sensation so disturbing. She said that one day a student asked a question and she felt a little rage rise up because she had just answered that question, but then she realized it had been asked in another section. She decided to change that. It does take a bit more prep, but she she thinks her lectures are better for it.

Obviously, doesn't work in a regimented system with common exams across classes.


erikaj - Nov 03, 2014 7:43:38 am PST #14234 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

That awkward moment when a male FOF on Facebook messages, and you're not sure if he wants to: a. befriend you

b. argue with something you've said/ fight

c.be that so-far mythical gimp devotee your other crip-women friends meet all the time(Maybe I know one, but my lack of squirming makes it unfun? Anyway, I feel I can't complain since I have been aroused by election coverage in the past. Keith+Rachel+massive Dem gains=risk of soul loss and some lack of fetish high ground)

d. show you his dick

e. ham-handledly flirt with you in a group of six other female strangers that look non-threatening to message. Is it any wonder my greetings are a bit wary?(and that's even leaving out the true-crimier possibilities) #YesReallyALL Women


Toddson - Nov 03, 2014 9:38:31 am PST #14235 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

on the lighter side ... if you're going to San Francisco (be sure to wear some flour in your hair?)


Laura - Nov 03, 2014 11:09:46 am PST #14236 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

And now I am hungry!