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'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Ginger - Oct 02, 2014 5:18:03 pm PDT #13538 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

So I've had three transfusions in the last three weeks, and my hemoglobin is still below 8 after yesterday's transfusion. The current theory is that I'm one of the 1% of patients on this chemo who gets GI bleeding. I have an appointment with a gastroenterologist tomorrow.

My oncologist told me yesterday to make an appointment ASAP, but I can only talk to the main scheduling office. The phrase "potential life-threatening GI bleed" had no effect, and the earliest appointment I could get was in three weeks. I sic'ced the oncologist's office on them and got the appointment for tomorrow. Of course it's at the Kaiser facility that's half way to Chattanooga.

Feeling like crap is bad enough without its being such hard work.


Connie Neil - Oct 02, 2014 5:19:47 pm PDT #13539 of 30002
brillig

Feeling like crap is bad enough without its being such hard work.

wrod


meara - Oct 02, 2014 5:24:34 pm PDT #13540 of 30002

Oh no, Ginger! So sorry you're feeling awful, and that they're buttheads. Glad you at least got an appointment for tomorrow.


Ginger - Oct 02, 2014 5:29:38 pm PDT #13541 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

To add insult to injury, the next transfusion they could schedule is on Saturday. The type-and-cross for yesterday's transfusion expires at midnight Friday, so I have to have that done tomorrow. All they do is draw one vial of blood. Last time I waited an hour and a half. For yesterday's transfusion, I waited more than an hour before there was a chair open, and I was there two hours before the blood showed up.

I hate them.


Connie Neil - Oct 02, 2014 5:37:02 pm PDT #13542 of 30002
brillig

I'll grant that these facilities are probably very busy, and there are so many processes that have to occur, but the organization seems so haphazard.


sj - Oct 02, 2014 5:43:41 pm PDT #13543 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ginger, I'm sorry. That is a lot to have to deal with in one day when you're already feeling badly.


Ginger - Oct 02, 2014 5:45:54 pm PDT #13544 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

The hardest part is that I've discovered that when my hemoglobin drops below 9, I lose higher brain functions. It's like trying to think when you're really stuffed up and have a fever.


Laura - Oct 02, 2014 5:56:37 pm PDT #13545 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I wanted him to see me as a competent grown-up. I’m not sure he ever did.

Oh, I absolutely know he did. Invisible friends knew this, and he most assuredly did.

I've actually gone out and done stuff nearly every night this week.

This is wonderful! It is so very often easier to not do stuff, but a much better plan to make the initial effort.

I sic'ced the oncologist's office on them and got the appointment for tomorrow.

It is ridiculous that you have to fight for the care you need when you don't have the energy. Still relieved to hear you got the appointment. My frustration with the hoops you need to jump through is massive; I can't even imagine your level. I so wish I could magically send you strength for the battles.


erin_obscure - Oct 02, 2014 6:36:30 pm PDT #13546 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Yay Hil! That's fantastic.

And Ginger, that's terrible :( It seems like the word "cancer" should really just open every door, make every appointment for the day and time that you are most able to get out the door, and eliminate all the BS red tape and hassles. Is there anyone we can beat up for you? Any palms or gears that need greased?


brenda m - Oct 02, 2014 6:50:03 pm PDT #13547 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oof, Ginger. That's just so wrong. Erin's right. Cancer should at least be a free pass from anything stressful and unpleasant that's not actually the cancer and its treatment.