Also, you can tell it's not gonna have a happy ending when the main guy's all bumpy.

Tara ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Oct 02, 2014 6:50:03 pm PDT #13547 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oof, Ginger. That's just so wrong. Erin's right. Cancer should at least be a free pass from anything stressful and unpleasant that's not actually the cancer and its treatment.


WindSparrow - Oct 02, 2014 8:15:00 pm PDT #13548 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Ginger, that's rough. I hope the next transfusion goes more smoothly and that the gastroenterologist is at the top of her/his game.

Connie, I don't really know what to say that wouldn't end up some ridiculous lecture on the nature of love and grief. Neither of us needs that. So I'm just going to skip it. In spirit I'm sitting quietly with you.


Hil R. - Oct 03, 2014 5:19:32 am PDT #13549 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

A guy just messaged me on OK Cupid to tell me that he thinks my profile is cool, and it would be great to know someone who could help him with his math classes.


Strix - Oct 03, 2014 5:20:13 am PDT #13550 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

::headdesk::


Hil R. - Oct 03, 2014 5:42:08 am PDT #13551 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Actually, his first message was just, "I need a math teacher." Then, two hours later, he sent one that said, "That came out wrong," and added that he thought my profile sounded cool, and asked some more about something I'd mentioned in it, and that he could use some help with math.


Rick - Oct 03, 2014 8:11:09 am PDT #13552 of 30002

So, I need one more teaching reference. Is it OK to ask a colleague,

Yes, certainly, as long as it is someone who would be expected to be in a position to judge. A senior lecturer would be better if one is available, but any experienced person would be ok. The important thing is that they be able to report directly on what they saw in the classroom.

Observations and letters by colleagues are standard in building a tenure case, because there really isn't anyone who qualifies as a supervisor of tenure track faculty.


Hil R. - Oct 03, 2014 9:17:28 am PDT #13553 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Thanks. I thought of someone better to ask -- the undergrad coordinator, who I know a bit, and who I think I can ask to come observe one of my classes. If he says no, then I'll ask the colleague I was thinking of (who is not a senior lecturer, but he runs the teaching discussion group that I've been a part of, and during the summers, he teaches at a teacher-training program, so he knows all the educational jargon and stuff.)

(I don't actually have any research references anymore, since I haven't done all that much research lately, but I have been supervising an undergrad student on a research project that's actually been getting some pretty cool results, and the person who runs the undergrad research program here is one of my references, so I'm keeping her up-to-date on how that's going, as a semi-research reference.)


Hil R. - Oct 03, 2014 9:24:14 am PDT #13554 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm not emailing the person until next week, though -- I don't want to get a "no" answer while I'm fasting, because I know that my brain will start panicking then. I can deal with a "no" if my blood sugar isn't plummeting at the same time.


omnis_audis - Oct 03, 2014 12:14:27 pm PDT #13555 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

It's so cute when faculty discover old Google Easter eggs. One just discovered tilt. So cute.


Toddson - Oct 03, 2014 12:25:12 pm PDT #13556 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

OMG ... someone's made a family of taxidermied mouse vampire hunters.