And now I'm the mean mom who made her bf leave. Yep, he packed up and left. He did tell me good bye. She is upset and right now it is all my fault. Right now I honestly don't care. She needs some time away from him.

Yes, I sound like interfering mom bitch. And maybe that is what I am. If she doesn't like it, she is an adult and she can move out herself. My roof. I'm allowed to express my concerns.

I know it's not easy, Suzi, but it sounds like it needed to be done.

You're doing the right thing, Suzi, although this one may get harder before it gets better.

The longer it dragged out, the worse it would have been, Suzi. Sorry K-bug is miffed. I hope she can appreciate your reasoning.

It isn't like they broke up. At least I don't think they have. But some separation was needed. I hope they both learn from it and if the relationship can still work, then good. If not, I hope one of them gets it and is brave enough to confront it.

Crazy you, Suzi, not wanting an extra roommate who sat there making goo-goo eyes with one person, ignored everyone else, and didn't chip in.

So I don't want to sound like an entitled asshole here, but why didn't bf get a job?

Ugh Suzi, parenting is hard.

In me news: Stayed up too late but I got 13 papers graded today. Worth the trade-off.

Suzi, I think him being gone is a good thing. This bit of what you wanted to say to her:

Doesn't like you to do anything without him. Is cutting you off from your friends.

Set off dozens of alarm bells. I hope KBug gets to a point where she realizes that.