Ha, my attitude was that virginity was roughly akin to admitting you didn't know how to ride a bike
I make no pretense to knowing the stats, but virginity and bad in bed (or not knowing how to make your partner come their brains out don't *have* to be causal. Let's work to dissociate them.
I'm going to have to stick with the notion that practicing your skills improves them. If you're going to hit that 10,000 hour threshold it's better to get started.
Timelies all!
Urgh, cramps in my left leg. Dunno why.
I'm going to have to stick with the notion that practicing your skills improves them
I'm going to stick with the notion that most people aren't practising sex, they're doing it, and there isn't that huge a learning curve for big general sex (since they're repeating themselves, not honing their skills), and also that you need to learn to please the person you're with, and a lot of stuff that's not sex can help you do that.
Maybe you need to sleep with more...imaginative virgins?
Hey Lee, is the nail polish box still going?
So, please tell me to step away from the Internet and not argue with someone about a made up quote from Socrates.
I think I am losing my mind.
Hyperbole and a half's Depression Part Two
I love her so much for saying things out loud I only whisper inside my own skull. So so much.
Maybe you need to sleep with more...imaginative virgins?
You may have just found exceedingly talented unicorn bait.
Because my experience pretty much lines up with Herc's.
You may have just found exceedingly talented unicorn bait.
Or untalented veterans. I've never stuck around anyone long enough to chart their progress, but you absolutely can't draw a line through my bed partners that gives any simple function between (# of lays since cherry pop) and (ability to moisten knickers). You could correlate it to other things, like personality, and to some degree body awareness, etc. Some people are just bad lays, and other people in general throw themselves at the challenge with an open mind and sensitive fingers that...yeah.