You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love till it kills you both.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kate P. - Feb 27, 2013 10:27:26 am PST #12981 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Seriously, that article was horrifying but very eye-opening. I literally had no idea that I could just call up the hospital and dispute charges on my bill. (I mean, I knew I could do that if, for example, they charged me for a service I didn't actually receive. But it never would have occurred to me to negotiate with them about payment for a procedure that actually happened!)


§ ita § - Feb 27, 2013 10:30:36 am PST #12982 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Yeah, that would totally be me. My doctor said he'd go to the mat in order to make sure insurance pays their bit, and that the hospital doesn't charge me outrageously for the trial, but the truth is I can't afford the real deal if the trial works, and I don't know if the knowledge is worth that first cheque. If this were going to cure my migraines, I might be selling myself on the street corner, but although my neck/shoulder is definitely bad, I'd rather throw small things at it (and argue with insurance about covering them...that's my task right now--the hospital is calling me for money, and I'm trying to get the information I need to appeal the rejected claims for last year's work...I don't want any new, expensive work this year).

I mean, fuck, I pulled up my EOBs for the doctor (thank you, tablet technology), and he couldn't understand what they were referring to without looking at my medical records (SURGERY, ANESTHESIA, ANESTHESIA, ANESTHESIA didn't cover anything he thought he'd done), and once he looked it up his response was "Of course that's what you do for that diagnosis...did a person tell you why they rejected it?"

So, that's on my task list for this week.

I know it's still a new thing and you don't want her to get pissy, which is why I say not blunt

Yeah, I think there'll be a standard lie down inbetween the shots from now on (well, I'm three weeks into a month's prescription--I have to call the social worker to make sure this keeps happening), and I might even see if I can leave the room (she may want to observe me, but fuck--my eyes will close--that's never not good).


§ ita § - Feb 27, 2013 10:34:00 am PST #12983 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

But it never would have occurred to me to negotiate with them about payment for a procedure that actually happened!

When I first came to the US, I found a lump in my breast after 2 months here, 1 month before health insurance would start (ask me why I like Canada still...), and I had the second best situation to being rich--the cousin I was living with was a doctor, and she was married to a chief of staff at a decently sized nearby hospital.

All the doctors and nurses worked for free, and it was done under local to avoid the extra anaesthesia costs, so all I had to pay were the hospital fees. And said chief of staff told me to call billing and tell them I was uninsured and paying cash, and ask how would that affect the total bill.

Not how you want to learn stuff, but on the other hand--stuff got learnt.


Lee - Feb 27, 2013 11:03:11 am PST #12984 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Nillybaby (held by Nilly)! [link]

NOT ENOUGH AWWWWWW IN THE WORLD

YAY Dana! When does he start?

Things I am tired of:
1) Being tired
2) People asking me to find things that don't exist
3) Realizing yet again that the quarter I just spent on a soda was more than 25% of the cash I have on hand


Amy - Feb 27, 2013 11:08:53 am PST #12985 of 30001
Because books.

People asking me to find things that don't exist

Does this mean you can't deliver the purple-striped unicorn I asked for?


Lee - Feb 27, 2013 11:10:11 am PST #12986 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

At least until the paint and the glue dry


Amy - Feb 27, 2013 11:15:38 am PST #12987 of 30001
Because books.

Hmph.


SuziQ - Feb 27, 2013 11:17:24 am PST #12988 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

(Psst. You forgot the glitter).


Amy - Feb 27, 2013 11:18:25 am PST #12989 of 30001
Because books.

SO TRUE.


§ ita § - Feb 27, 2013 11:52:16 am PST #12990 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Do we get glitter in the mane? t /Samsung Galaxy something 3

The incompetent developer is trying to blame me for breaking something that she doesn't want to fix. Now, even if I broke it, it's her job to fix it. But it just so happens, I DIDN'T DO IT. I did use the word "scapegoat" in my reply to her explaining that I have nothing to do with the issue.

The last time she told me an issue was my fault, she had the decency to asscap her eventually discovered culpability. She's really inventive about everything except problem-solving. Blame-appropriating? Like a boss.