It's good to have cargo. Makes us a target for every other scavenger out there, though, but sometimes that's fun too.

Mal ,'Shindig'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Feb 26, 2013 10:40:03 am PST #12860 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Shorter or longer than this, Lee?


EpicTangent - Feb 26, 2013 10:42:48 am PST #12861 of 30001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I also am an "awkward with the hairdresser" person. I talk about the weather and our city, but I (irrationally) resent the expectation that I am supposed to make chat with someone who is cutting my hair!

My hairdresser is a friend, so I don't mind chatting with her. The ladies at my nail place mostly chat with each other (in Vietnamese) and just let me read my book. I love this. My mother never goes to my nail place (even though they charge literally half what she pays her regular gal), because she likes to chat. This boggles me a bit, but I guess it takes all kinds of people to make a world, right?


le nubian - Feb 26, 2013 10:43:31 am PST #12862 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Extrovert/introvert is a spectrum on a bell curve, not a binary. Most people need a mixture of socializing and alone time.

To be perfectly honest, if I had a computer, you people, and twitter, I could be alone on a desert island indefinitely.


Lee - Feb 26, 2013 10:43:32 am PST #12863 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Shorter or longer than this, Lee?

Right about that length would be good, actually. I may take that one with me

Thanks!


Sophia Brooks - Feb 26, 2013 10:44:24 am PST #12864 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

what's the term for someone who is very much an extrovert, but absolutely needs a certain amount of alone time/down time?

I think that is an introvert. I think I might be a shy extrovert, actually.


Jessica - Feb 26, 2013 10:46:35 am PST #12865 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

OMGOMGOMG YOU GUYS.

I want to live here forever:

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Atropa - Feb 26, 2013 10:47:12 am PST #12866 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Extrovert/introvert is a spectrum on a bell curve, not a binary. Most people need a mixture of socializing and alone time.

I know that when my stress level goes up, I need more alone time. But I love going out! Events! Yes, let me go to big events and talk to lots of people!


DavidS - Feb 26, 2013 10:49:59 am PST #12867 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Oh, and if anybody was particularly entranced with Charlize's hair on Oscar night here's a good reference pic.


meara - Feb 26, 2013 10:50:38 am PST #12868 of 30001

See, whereas I'm mad extroverted--I love having houseguests because that means there's people around ALL THE TIME! (I mean, I like them better if they also understand that we should both spend some time on the computer or watching TV, because I hate getting days behind on things like borg and FB, but even then I like doing it with someone else in the room). I'm totally a dog on the dog/cat friend scale. :)


Atropa - Feb 26, 2013 10:51:41 am PST #12869 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

What amuses me is that almost ALL of my dearest friends are introverts.