You're nice, and you're funny and you don't smoke, and okay, werewolf, but that's not all the time. I mean, three days out of the month, I'm not much fun to be around, either.

Willow ,'Get It Done'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Connie Neil - Jun 06, 2012 12:03:55 pm PDT #8595 of 30001
brillig

Today's Google widget is nifty, it's about drive-in movies.


§ ita § - Jun 06, 2012 12:29:28 pm PDT #8596 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

IO9 linked to a distressing article on a dangerous "treatment" for autism. I don't understand why you have to make your snake oil so highly dangerous. Aren't there plenty of things that won't harm that you could bilk people with instead?


§ ita § - Jun 06, 2012 12:38:17 pm PDT #8597 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I asked for five months worth of data, and the guy came back to me saying (generous term for his tone) "That's a *lot*. You really want *all* that?" "Yup. I can't get a good sense of the traffic with less." "But it's a *lot*." "Mmm hmm." "A lot?"

Seriously, motherfucker, cut it up into usable chunks AND GIVE ME THE DAMNED DATA.

Okay, lunch.


meara - Jun 06, 2012 12:43:44 pm PDT #8598 of 30001

Jesse, I share your appreciation for the awesomeness of Jay Smooth. I don't wish to marry him, but if I could be his friend and han out a bunch, that would be cool.

On a random other note: so, one of the possible questions you can answer on OKCupid (to help them match you) is "do you have a problem with racist jokes". I figure anytime I see a white person answer no", they aren't on my date-able list anymore. But I'm a bit puzzled/conflicted about the women of color who answer no. I mean...huh? Are you the "friend" all the republicans have? Are you just thaaaat chill? Trying to be nice? Ok with it if it's from people in your own group? (that I get, though I wouldn't necessarily classify in-group jokes as racist anymore than if classify queers talking about lesbian second dates as homophobic). Help?


meara - Jun 06, 2012 12:47:41 pm PDT #8599 of 30001

Also, that autism "treatment" sounds awful, though her shock at diluted bleach baths is a bit weird. I mean, diluted, not straight-up, it's been recommended lately by mainstream doctors to treat eczema. But thats external, not internal!!


Hil R. - Jun 06, 2012 12:47:46 pm PDT #8600 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Just need to brag for a minute. I am a genealogy genius. One of my sister's friends recently discovered that she had some Jewish ancestry, but was hitting a dead end with trying to research anything further, so she asked me for help. Based on a name, a few dates, and a misspelled place name, I was able to figure out that her ancestor had changed his name after coming to the US, and found records from Moldova listing his father's and grandfather's names. (She can't use the usual method of finding other relatives and asking them, since this whole convoluted thing involves a baby born out of wedlock, and it's the father's family she's researching, and she doesn't really want to surprise her half-cousins with, "Hey, your grandfather had an affair and they had a baby.")


Sheryl - Jun 06, 2012 12:52:06 pm PDT #8601 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Meh. Still fighting off the snot monster.(Yeah, Gary gave me his cold, though it seems to be not as bad for me)


le nubian - Jun 06, 2012 12:53:25 pm PDT #8602 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

woot! genius in the house!

meara, do you think that "racist" when people of color use it in OKCupid means something different than when White people use it?

For example, perhaps they answer yes because they laugh at Dave Chappelle's jokes - which are "racial" but not "racist" (to my mind).


meara - Jun 06, 2012 1:19:35 pm PDT #8603 of 30001

Yeah, that was one of the things I was wondering--"racial" vs "racist" may be a good way to contrast. I totally get enjoying "racial" humor (or whatever the gay equivalent would be, or blonde, or whatever group the comedian happens to be a member of). So maybe that's how some people are thinking of the question. And honestly I rarely even have to think about racist humor among my friends or whatever--but I'm still shocked and appalled from a few years ago when my then-gf's BFF told me a blatantly racist joke about black people (...I think she figured since she didn't use the N word it was fine) and when I called her out my gf defended it. Ugh.


smonster - Jun 06, 2012 1:40:49 pm PDT #8604 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Way to go, Hil! On the off chance you need any Romanian translated, hit me up. Unless it's in Cyrillic characters.