Also, that autism "treatment" sounds awful, though her shock at diluted bleach baths is a bit weird. I mean, diluted, not straight-up, it's been recommended lately by mainstream doctors to treat eczema. But thats external, not internal!!

Just need to brag for a minute. I am a genealogy genius. One of my sister's friends recently discovered that she had some Jewish ancestry, but was hitting a dead end with trying to research anything further, so she asked me for help. Based on a name, a few dates, and a misspelled place name, I was able to figure out that her ancestor had changed his name after coming to the US, and found records from Moldova listing his father's and grandfather's names. (She can't use the usual method of finding other relatives and asking them, since this whole convoluted thing involves a baby born out of wedlock, and it's the father's family she's researching, and she doesn't really want to surprise her half-cousins with, "Hey, your grandfather had an affair and they had a baby.")

Timelies all!

Meh. Still fighting off the snot monster.(Yeah, Gary gave me his cold, though it seems to be not as bad for me)

woot! genius in the house!

meara, do you think that "racist" when people of color use it in OKCupid means something different than when White people use it?

For example, perhaps they answer yes because they laugh at Dave Chappelle's jokes - which are "racial" but not "racist" (to my mind).

Yeah, that was one of the things I was wondering--"racial" vs "racist" may be a good way to contrast. I totally get enjoying "racial" humor (or whatever the gay equivalent would be, or blonde, or whatever group the comedian happens to be a member of). So maybe that's how some people are thinking of the question. And honestly I rarely even have to think about racist humor among my friends or whatever--but I'm still shocked and appalled from a few years ago when my then-gf's BFF told me a blatantly racist joke about black people (...I think she figured since she didn't use the N word it was fine) and when I called her out my gf defended it. Ugh.

Way to go, Hil! On the off chance you need any Romanian translated, hit me up. Unless it's in Cyrillic characters.

Hey, I am curious -- my friend L, who lives in Seattle, gave a D in Seattle my business card and he said he knew me!

Now, there are a couple of "me's" out there, including a former beauty queen and a chemist, so I'm trying to figure out if it was a Buffista or Buffista-adjacent D! Because, OMG, wow! Funny!

Profile addy good if you don't want to say on-board.

X-Post w/ Bitches

Could that be Susan W.'s husband?

Way to go, Hil! On the off chance you need any Romanian translated, hit me up. Unless it's in Cyrillic characters.

Thanks! They're probably a while from having any Romanian documents, though.

Hil, dingdingding! You are correct! Small world, eh?

msbelle, i am so sorry about the continued frustration with Mac.