ita, I thought you meant this James Bulger, who is more of a perpetrator of murder.

I need donuts.

Oddly, there were Krispy Kremes in Phoenix when I went there last, but there were, like, six locations that had closed down. I'm pretty sure I know where one was that hadn't, but by the time I realized it was the only one in the city, I was well on my way home. Woes.

I would also like chicken alfredo pasta for lunch. But I don't have chicken. Or alfredo. I just have the pasta, and honestly that's probably what's going to happen. I mean, I might have udon instead of penne, but the odds are in favor of some sort of noodle, because lo, I am lazy today.

We cancelled all our lessons for today thinking we had to travel to New Mexico, but we don't have to go until tomorrow. So we're chilling today instead. Whoot.

Whitey Bulger is less a stab right in the gut than the two year old.

I didn't realise that the three sea shell dilemma in Demolition Man had been answered. And what sort of an answer is that?

Oh, awesome. So the guy who does YoIsThisRacist also does Yo Should I Dump This Asshole? It's kind of brilliant.

I thought ita was talking about Whitey Bulger, too.

My my, much to catch up on:

Sending ~ma to Morgana.

Tom, I agree with everyone that the years where you feel good about yourself will provide you your best years, age be damned.

I myself never really thought about my "best years," whether behind or before me. OK, not true. I hated high school and promised myself that my best years were still ahead of me. But as life has gone on, good and bad years have been more determined by the health and well being of those around me, not my age.

Speaking of, msbelle I am so sorry that it's been so hard for you. I have been there, back when my mom was ill, so I know that feeling of not having any time for me and my own needs. Whatever little space you can carve out for yourself, please do it. And know that there is lots of love for you.

Can you add something to the salad, msbelle? Maybe cheese or avocado? or ham?

I will say that there is nothing, NOTHING, that would make be be willing to relive 42. But so far, 43 has been pretty good.

Happy birthday, Vortex!

I just realized that Tom was not wandering around Colonial Williamsburg lamenting his lost youth...

Ha! But what a great visual.

Yo Should I Dump This Asshole?

This cracked me up:

Anonymous asked: Yo, I'm not in a relationship because everyone's ended up being kinda sexist or racist or some other kind of douche. Is it worth it even trying?

OF COURSE, LOVE IS THE NECTAR THAT MAKES LIFE WORTH LIVING

Just kidding, you know I’m all for giving the fuck up.

Is it bad that this cracked me up?

Whitey Bulger is less a stab right in the gut than the two year old.

This is why I was so confused until I clicked through!

I don't even think that I've ever heard of Whitey, but I sure knew the story of the toddler Bulger.