What is your childhood trauma?

Cordelia ,'Lessons'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Burrell - Apr 11, 2012 8:45:27 am PDT #412 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I went from acne to rosacea. Both are annoying. sigh. I'd say the rosacea is worse because it can cause acne as well.


Consuela - Apr 11, 2012 8:46:29 am PDT #413 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Yeah, I've got that, too, Burrell. I suspect I should cut back on the red wine, but I don't wannaaaaa.


Burrell - Apr 11, 2012 8:47:12 am PDT #414 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Most of my regrets are about playing it safe. Which should be a lesson to my present self.

Me too, Sue.


Zenkitty - Apr 11, 2012 8:48:29 am PDT #415 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I did the stupid things. My fuck-ups were epic. There'd be poems and songs, but I'm trying to keep it quiet. Some things I regret. Some... I dunno. If I'd known at the time what my choices would lead to, I wouldn't have done those things. But if I hadn't, I wouldn't be here now. I might be someplace better, but who knows. I do wish that, if I was going to waste my twenties (in the sense of not getting started on a career or grad school or something sensible) I wish I'd wasted it traveling and doing useless artsy stuff, instead of wasting it on someone who never loved me.


Sue - Apr 11, 2012 8:50:26 am PDT #416 of 30001
hip deep in pie

House-ma Nora!

If only I could go back in time and jump a certain guy's bones. So what if he had a girlfriend!

ETA to protect me from him Googling himself.


meara - Apr 11, 2012 8:56:50 am PDT #417 of 30001

The FACE LASERS have been about trying to take a hit out on my rosacea. Doesn't seem to be working.

And definitely, it's the things I didn't do (including things I didn't even think of or seriously consider, like "why didn't I up and roam around the world after college instead of trying to get a job" or whatever) that I regret. Even if there are some very awkward "I'll regret it if I don't at least try" moments that occasionally float to the surface of my memory and make me cringe horribly.


Calli - Apr 11, 2012 8:56:51 am PDT #418 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Regrets. I have a few. And not too few to mention, either. Still, I'm enjoying a lot about my current life: a decent job, the ability to schedule and pay for summer vacation somewhere near Lake Michigan, my cat, my garden, etc. Would I like someone to pay me to wander around Europe and drink wine in charming cafes? Sure. But until that happens, my current situation's pretty good.


Zenkitty - Apr 11, 2012 9:01:37 am PDT #419 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

House~ma, Nora!


-t - Apr 11, 2012 9:02:53 am PDT #420 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I did a LOT of stupid stuff in my youth but I don't have a lot of regrets. And my attempts to be practical and responsible have rarely worked out well for me, so maybe I should just go with my strengths...


Laura - Apr 11, 2012 9:05:05 am PDT #421 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

House~ma! Closing that chapter would be good.

There are plenty of things I would do differently given age and wisdom, but I am not convinced I would be in a better place. We are in the end the sum of our choices and experiences and there is no going back. I'm trying to make better choices going forward. And I am suddenly reminded of dude in 'Prelude to a Kiss' saying if he had it to do over he would floss regularly.

Also, why is Manson being denied parole breaking news?