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Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Strix - Apr 19, 2012 12:18:01 pm PDT #1701 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I dunno, I like Pope Jacqueline. It's got that Avignon second Vatican lilt to it. I mea, if you're gonna schism, make up your own rules about pope names, too.


Burrell - Apr 19, 2012 12:33:00 pm PDT #1702 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Aww, RIP Barnabas Collins.

I can't tell if that's bitterly ironic or just the cycle of life, cultural studies version. But it seems sad.

And msbelle, sorry to hear mac making those sorts of threats. Sounds like you did the right thing. I feel for mac, he has such big emotions.


msbelle - Apr 19, 2012 12:41:34 pm PDT #1703 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

JZ - The MCC I attended a few times in NYC was very similar to Catholic mass in order or worship and such. schism to a new MCC branch in SF.


Jesse - Apr 19, 2012 12:58:37 pm PDT #1704 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ah, mac. What Burrell said.


Typo Boy - Apr 19, 2012 1:02:06 pm PDT #1705 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

I dunno, I like Pope Jacqueline. It's got that Avignon second Vatican lilt to it. I mea, if you're gonna schism, make up your own rules about pope names, too.

Oh yeah, JZ's own name is extremely cool. But Pope Joan II has major mythological echoes.


JZ - Apr 19, 2012 1:02:16 pm PDT #1706 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

There's a very crunchy-dancy-wild Episcopal church in Potrero Hill (Jilli's Stunt Husband even dragged his pagan self there a few times when he was dating a churchy San Franciscan and kind of loved it), and I'm pretty sure there are MCCs here as well. And, of course, there's the woman-led Catholic congregation that meets in an Episcopal church once a month in the shadow of the cathedral, to which I know at least one couple in my parish also belongs.

I don't know, I don't know. I want to talk to the other parish council members here. The big Church sucks in many ways, but my own parish? I love it, and I know enough of the people who are running it to be pretty certain that it's not in imminent danger of collapsing or veering hard-right.

eta: No Papacy for me. Too much work! I can barely stay on top of my current to-do list.


Typo Boy - Apr 19, 2012 1:07:52 pm PDT #1707 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

So as long as your own Parish remains progressive, it in no way contributes to the power of the right wing institutional church? I know nothing about the mechanics of the Catholic church, so am honestly asking. When the a right wind Bishop goes to tell a politician how to vote, you are not counted among the number of Catholics he represents? No money put in the collection plate at your local church ends up in the hands of the upper hierarchy?

[On Edit: decided not to correct the typo about "right wind Bishop". ]


Consuela - Apr 19, 2012 1:18:57 pm PDT #1708 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

So as long as your own Parish remains progressive, it in no way contributes to the power of the right wing institutional church? I know nothing about the mechanics of the Catholic church, so am honestly asking.

I think it's a lot to ask people who have spent all their lives (or at least many years) in one church community to prioritize politics over that sense of community, particularly when their own church experience is not the one doing the damage.

My sister's been attending the same church for twenty-five years and, like JZ, she's getting a lot from the community. And that parish isn't at this point being all right-wing and authoritarian, nor has it had any child-abuse scandal. So the problems with the Church as a whole, while she's aware of them, are not affecting her religious experience.

It's like expecting someone to leave the family because Dad is racist. Well, yeah, but he's Dad. You can argue with him and challenge him, but he's still family, and if you can't change him, are you going to walk out and not come back? That's a really personal thing, and I don't think it's my business to inquire into someone else's decisions on that.


JZ - Apr 19, 2012 1:24:55 pm PDT #1709 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Typo, most of the people at my parish donate by check, with "For parish funds only" in the memo line, which restricts the money to, well, the parish only (something a lot of people all over the country have started doing, specifically so they can continue to show support for their parishes while keeping their money out of the hierarchy's hands). Which is a generally accepted practice - un-designated checks go into a general pot from which the diocese can take as needed, but designated ones can't go anywhere else.

And, for now at least, we've got an assistant bishop in the diocesan office who is not only strongly progressive but who grew up in the parish, so we're more or less insulated from the crazy further up (unless he gets moved elsewhere, in which case all bets are off).


erikaj - Apr 19, 2012 1:25:55 pm PDT #1710 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!

Dude, I'm Lutheran(or, you know, was) the only advice I have is to write up a Letterman-style "Top 99 Reasons Your Church Blows Goats" list, nail it on the door and wait for the flame war to start. Not believing is kind of easier, at least till someone writes the Leonard Gospels. Hee, hee, talk about "leaving out the parts people skip"