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Typo Boy - Apr 19, 2012 1:07:52 pm PDT #1707 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

So as long as your own Parish remains progressive, it in no way contributes to the power of the right wing institutional church? I know nothing about the mechanics of the Catholic church, so am honestly asking. When the a right wind Bishop goes to tell a politician how to vote, you are not counted among the number of Catholics he represents? No money put in the collection plate at your local church ends up in the hands of the upper hierarchy?

[On Edit: decided not to correct the typo about "right wind Bishop". ]


Consuela - Apr 19, 2012 1:18:57 pm PDT #1708 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

So as long as your own Parish remains progressive, it in no way contributes to the power of the right wing institutional church? I know nothing about the mechanics of the Catholic church, so am honestly asking.

I think it's a lot to ask people who have spent all their lives (or at least many years) in one church community to prioritize politics over that sense of community, particularly when their own church experience is not the one doing the damage.

My sister's been attending the same church for twenty-five years and, like JZ, she's getting a lot from the community. And that parish isn't at this point being all right-wing and authoritarian, nor has it had any child-abuse scandal. So the problems with the Church as a whole, while she's aware of them, are not affecting her religious experience.

It's like expecting someone to leave the family because Dad is racist. Well, yeah, but he's Dad. You can argue with him and challenge him, but he's still family, and if you can't change him, are you going to walk out and not come back? That's a really personal thing, and I don't think it's my business to inquire into someone else's decisions on that.


JZ - Apr 19, 2012 1:24:55 pm PDT #1709 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Typo, most of the people at my parish donate by check, with "For parish funds only" in the memo line, which restricts the money to, well, the parish only (something a lot of people all over the country have started doing, specifically so they can continue to show support for their parishes while keeping their money out of the hierarchy's hands). Which is a generally accepted practice - un-designated checks go into a general pot from which the diocese can take as needed, but designated ones can't go anywhere else.

And, for now at least, we've got an assistant bishop in the diocesan office who is not only strongly progressive but who grew up in the parish, so we're more or less insulated from the crazy further up (unless he gets moved elsewhere, in which case all bets are off).


erikaj - Apr 19, 2012 1:25:55 pm PDT #1710 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!

Dude, I'm Lutheran(or, you know, was) the only advice I have is to write up a Letterman-style "Top 99 Reasons Your Church Blows Goats" list, nail it on the door and wait for the flame war to start. Not believing is kind of easier, at least till someone writes the Leonard Gospels. Hee, hee, talk about "leaving out the parts people skip"


Typo Boy - Apr 19, 2012 1:28:31 pm PDT #1711 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

But I'm inquring into a particular line of reasoning. And something JZ has discussed on this list. At any rate, not telling JZ what to do. Just asking what the full effects of her continued membership in her local Parish are, as someone ignorant of the relation between Parishes and the larger church? Not asking what she is going to do, regardless of the answer.

x-posted and JZ answered - she contributes in a way that does NOT go to the larger hierarchy .


lisah - Apr 19, 2012 1:29:46 pm PDT #1712 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

The crackdown on the nuns is so very rage making. Steph says what I feel:

I, personally, have no interest in returning to the Catholic faith, but that really makes my heart hurt for my nuns (I do the newsletter for the Ursulines who run my high school). They're pretty much fiercely devoted to social justice in the scariest parts of the city, and they do so much good. What a fucking kick in the teeth to them.

I was Ursuline educated and my great-aunt is an Ursuline and they, and other nuns I've known, are, for the most part, some really smart, talented, free thinking women. That the institution they've devoted their lives to does this to them makes me sick.

The nun they interviewed about the subject on All Things Considered today is pretty kick ass.


DavidS - Apr 19, 2012 1:31:46 pm PDT #1713 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

she contributes in a way that does go to the larger hierarchy

No, she only contributes to the local parish.

And even then we don't have much money to be contributing to anything except out rent and food budget.


Typo Boy - Apr 19, 2012 1:33:44 pm PDT #1714 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Corrected the typo (and the Typo).

I hate that kind error where I leave out a critical word and say the exact opposite of what I intend. And its not like I don't review. Something in the way my brain is wired makes it impossible to catch that sort of thing unless I review over and over again.


Sheryl - Apr 19, 2012 1:38:49 pm PDT #1715 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Heading to Toronto for FilKOntario tomorrow. Will pack after dinner.


JZ - Apr 19, 2012 1:41:32 pm PDT #1716 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

There is something to be said for staying in and continuing to support an openly progressive parish. We're actually one of the few in the diocese that are breaking even and self-sustaining - we're not making enough to take on any special projects or make new hires without fundraising, but in this economy even self-sustaining is a big deal.

I'm sure the national and international hierarchy think we're heretical dirt, but the local hierarchy looks at us and sees a parish that's surviving and a parish where people get sent who are furious at the Church, on their way out the door forever, but end up staying (a lot of parishes have dwindling memberships, people who leave and don't move to another parish but to none at all, and run deficits so chronic that their diocese have to dig into their own pockets and underwrite the parish budgets -- my old parish routinely ran 5-figure deficits).