I kissed him, and I told him that I loved him. And I killed him.

Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Jul 02, 2012 11:32:44 am PDT #12450 of 30001
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

I think the "cis" is the Latin prefix.

I am starting to get twitchy. Husband has to find a new job, we're going to have to move, and now I have the urge to throw out half of everything in the house.


Aims - Jul 02, 2012 11:33:08 am PDT #12451 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

According to wiki, cis- is the Latin antonym of trans and was first used in 1998 by a German sexologist.


§ ita § - Jul 02, 2012 11:33:13 am PDT #12452 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

No, clearly we cannot.

Now, if you were really pre-occupied by the meaning of the term cotton ceiling, Roz Kaveney (I'm not sure why so much stuff comes back around to her. She must talk a LOT) had an article in which she discussed the way that lesbian support of trans* people (women in this specific case) stops at the cotton panties--they're willing to advocate, but not to recreate. Trans* women aren't womanly enough for a lesbian.

Which...is pretty confusing. When someone says they'll never fall for an Asian guy, I get all bristly. But when someone says they'll never fall (all the way down) for someone born with a penis, whether or not they have one at the time, it sounds both different and very much the same.


Zenkitty - Jul 02, 2012 11:34:16 am PDT #12453 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I'd like to Favorite Calli's entire last post. Also the beet-goat and cheese avocado in SPACE conversation.

Almost three days of no AC in 90+ degree weather, it felt like a week. Last night I finally gave in and went over to my niece's to sleep. Then I felt stupid for not doing that sooner; it was fine. And she didn't even play loud heavy metal music except for about an hour while I was trying to fall asleep!

So basically, when civilization falls, it won't be bands of marauders, disease, or zombies that do me in; I'll die from the lack of air conditioning.


Amy - Jul 02, 2012 11:34:47 am PDT #12454 of 30001
Because books.

Thanks, ladies.

Husband has to find a new job, we're going to have to move, and now I have the urge to throw out half of everything in the house.

If you're going to move, it's not a bad idea. I hope he can find something soon, too.


Dana - Jul 02, 2012 11:35:21 am PDT #12455 of 30001
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Well, what I mean is that I want half of the stuff in the house to disappear without my having to put out any effort.


§ ita § - Jul 02, 2012 11:36:04 am PDT #12456 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

However, I am wondering if they have given reasons for hating cis women?

The tumblrs I was reading were very much stating that there was no such thing as a cis self-defined trans* ally. I'm guessing the incidence of women claiming solidarity was higher than men doing so, and that's where the vitriol was levelled. I couldn't tell where some of these women that were being quoted went wrong, but the point is that I can't, can I?

And there seems to be an ongoing battle on tumblr between trans* women and radical feminists. Blood drawn, and bones broken, the whole shebang. I just landed on the radfem side of it today.


Calli - Jul 02, 2012 11:40:07 am PDT #12457 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Thanks, Zenkitty!

Dana, if you don't mind sharing, what's your DH's field, again? My org has a number of openings, and the amount of crazy has gone down to standard background noise levels here in the past year. If you want to email me (contact address is good) for more info, that's fine. While not as Buffista-licious as some cities, there are several of us here.


Sophia Brooks - Jul 02, 2012 11:52:39 am PDT #12458 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Aargh. I have lost a pocket. It is the last thing I need to do. It was in My hand and now it is gone.


flea - Jul 02, 2012 11:52:40 am PDT #12459 of 30001
information libertarian

Well, what I mean is that I want half of the stuff in the house to disappear without my having to put out any effort.

I want this to happen, and I'm not even planning to move anytime soon.

Could it start with the children's horrible plastic toys, please?