Isn't it? I am just amazed by the beauty and the brilliance.

And it might just be the kick I needed to get me back on Match.com or something! ;) (But S is visiting next week, so I'll wait til after!)

My parents were mostly good. There were issues and there are always issues. Mom and I were too close for awhile, Dad has trouble expressing his feelings.

I spent most of the time growing up being "the sick one" in the family. I got all this attention and focus when most of the time I just wanted to be left alone and hide in the closet. It effected my relationship with my brother. We aren't close.

I'm terrible at relationships with other people, mostly because I think non family members can barely tolerate me and expect people to jsut tell me they don't like me and go away.

I also realized that I'm frustrated at some decisions my brother has made, but part of those frustrations come from the fact that he should "know" better or "act" better or something. He shouldn't be relying on my parents financial help because he's not the "sick one". He's the one who has all the chances and the shot at a "real" life. So he shouldn't be in this situation.

Which, I realize, isn't fair because his current situation sucks and he's not perfect. And he gets to make mistakes and need help even though he's "normal".

Jeepers, it's like my opinions don't even count when I'm the only one here.

Well, I'm eager to meet you if we ever get the chance.

And what I said upthread to Ginger applies to you, too, you know. Your kindness (to me and to others) has been memorable, and inspiring. Thank you; it's a small way of making the world a better place, but please never doubt that it makes a difference.

Thank you, Karl, that means a lot to me.

Well, I'm eager to meet you if we ever get the chance.

Me too, Connie!

I'm having lots of thinky thoughts about my family, but instead I'll talk about my dinner.... Remember the kale and chorizo with poached egg thing I was making a while ago? On a similar note, every bit as good with mixed greens, bacon, and some dried chile. And that's all stuff in the house!

I got permission to share this amazing wedding invitation. I am speechless.

That was lovely. Both the story and the webpage. I keep hoping I'll have a story like that.

Okay, so if you had a friend whose yahoo email was hacked, spewing two spam linky mails to the entire address list, even the dead people, in the two minutes before she discovered the issue and changed the password, would you appreciate a followup "sorry I got hacked" email, or let it be?

Signed, sorry, everyone, and you should really use my gmail anyway, I just never closed my yahoo address because have you met my mother? Technological change is not her thing.

That was lovely. Both the story and the webpage. I keep hoping I'll have a story like that.

Yes, and yes.

Don't worry about it, flea. I'd just let it be.

Pretty much exactly, precisely what P-C said.

(Though my very first reaction was that I know a Jess married to a Russ, and for a second wondered...but no).