Pretty much exactly, precisely what P-C said.

(Though my very first reaction was that I know a Jess married to a Russ, and for a second wondered...but no).

There must be a major breech at Yahoo. I got another spam mail from a friend I NEVER get mail from on his Yahoo account as well.

I want to hug my mom and tell her how much I love her right now. She was a great mom, and y'all are reminding me of how grateful I am for her love.

I feel the same way, Burrell.

flea, I was just coming here to ask if you'd been hacked! Speaking just for me, I don't think a followup email would be necessary, but I did feel the need to make sure you knew you'd been hacked, so you might be fielding some emails from people wondering the same thing.

Yes, notably my brother, who snarked that I should be using Gmail. Which I, you know, am, except for legacy purposes, like my mother.

I sent out a "Sorry for all the REALLY inappropriate spam" email when I got hacked, but mine was also a couple of days before I figured out how to deal, so I felt VERY BAD.

And I am sick of people just piping up with "adopt!" to me. Like a kid is something I can just to the store to buy.

Um. That's not really how I would characterize adoption.

Okay, so if you had a friend whose yahoo email was hacked, spewing two spam linky mails to the entire address list, even the dead people, in the two minutes before she discovered the issue and changed the password, would you appreciate a followup "sorry I got hacked" email, or let it be?

Eh, it's usually pretty obvious, so I just delete it and move on. Of course, it's usually pretty obvious because I'm suddenly getting e-mail from someone I haven't spoken to in years.

Lee! You are Lee again.

I have been for a few months, actually.

Very pretty, javachik.

Hello, Karl. You've been in my thoughts.

We were in the waiting room with my dad, and whenever anyone else came into the waiting room (doctor, nurse, random stranger), my dad and I immediately switched on into "charming, set people at ease" mode. Neither of us were aware we were doing it, but we did.

Yes. And so very difficult *not* to do it.

flea, I posted here, on LJ and DW and a couple of other places when it happened to my account. A couple of people mentioned it and I apologized, and that was it. I don't think a mailing list apology is called for, really.

Um. That's not really how I would characterize adoption.

Lee, of COURSE it isn't, which is my point. Well-meaning people, when they hear that I am struggling with not having kids, pipe up very eagerly with "you can always adopt!" It irritates me because adoption IS NOT simple, and it feels a lot like they're not really listening to me or caring. It feels very dismissive about what I might actually be struggling with.