My whole life, I've never loved anything else.

Oz ,'Him'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - Oct 05, 2011 8:32:13 am PDT #337 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Damn, ita, I am so sorry. Fuck cancer, indeed.


lisah - Oct 05, 2011 8:36:53 am PDT #338 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

Oh fucking hell, ita. Maria expressed what I am thinking exactly.


Allyson - Oct 05, 2011 8:44:22 am PDT #339 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

ita. That's all I've got.


Consuela - Oct 05, 2011 8:49:34 am PDT #340 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

ION, my Nemesis blew off deadlines she had assigned herself, and when I asked about the projects, misrepresented the dates she had given.

Do I challenge her on it? Just send the evidence to my boss? Ask if I can help because clearly she's too busy to get all her work done on time? (Which is frankly the truth.)


Amy - Oct 05, 2011 8:51:35 am PDT #341 of 30001
Because books.

Just send the evidence to my boss?

This is what I would do.

Sara's home sick today, and we're watching Splash. She's completely charmed.


Burrell - Oct 05, 2011 8:52:17 am PDT #342 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

NEVER offer to help her Suela, that's just baiting her as far as she's concerned.


Consuela - Oct 05, 2011 8:55:29 am PDT #343 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

NEVER offer to help her Suela, that's just baiting her as far as she's concerned.

Bah. I'm so annoyed.

She also consistently refuses (without actually refusing) to share information. I say, "Please cc me on conversations with X," and she just doesn't. I say, "Please send me this documentation," and she just doesn't.

When there are delays and complications, she doesn't bother to tell anyone. Any sensible person would inform their boss at the very least, but she doesn't.


lisah - Oct 05, 2011 9:07:05 am PDT #344 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

Suela, don't you have regular project status.meetings where these issues could be addressed? And risk reports and action item lists?


Fred Pete - Oct 05, 2011 9:07:26 am PDT #345 of 30001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Best wishes for ita !, mother, and family.


Lee - Oct 05, 2011 9:13:46 am PDT #346 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Not to make light of anything, but it seems like we could maybe use a round of Things That Make Me Happy.

Like, putting my hand in my coat pocket and finding $13 I didn't know I had.

or

Matthew Gray Gubler

or

Hawaii