Inara: I think she looks adorable. Mal: Yeah, but I never said it.

'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Beverly - Mar 13, 2012 10:02:44 am PDT #9637 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Laura, I'm not surprised you haven't wanted to talk about it. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with it--I wish there was something concrete I could do or suggest.

Stephanie, what they all said. I wish you the best possible outcome for you and the kids.

sumi, glad you're home! And yes, it was wonderful of you to keep us updated.

Maria, I said in Natter, but I'll say again, I'm relieved and happy for you.

Steph, all good thoughts to your dad.

Erin, I'm glad you're on the mend.

Billytea, that is one handsome little dude! Thanks so much for sharing the photos--they brighten my day considerably.


smonster - Mar 13, 2012 10:04:52 am PDT #9638 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Arrgh, Steph. Did they have a reasonable explanation why he had to wait so long for the angiogram in the first place?


Steph L. - Mar 13, 2012 10:09:13 am PDT #9639 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Arrgh, Steph. Did they have a reasonable explanation why he had to wait so long for the angiogram in the first place?

The cardiologist said that it was entirely an issue of staffing and "bad" timing, that they don't have the staff to do "elective" procedures like Dad's (no, he really did refer to the angiogram as elective) on a weekend, because what would happen if an actual heart attack patient came in?

I understand the math, but I disagree with understaffing hospitals. I also strenuously disagree that a diagnostic procedure on a 70-year-old man who's had 5 heart attacks is an "elective" procedure. (And I get that they use it to distinguish between an emergency procedure, and non-emergency procedures, but if he had used the term "non-emergency procedure" instead of "elective," I would have been WAY less pissed.)

I'm exhausted. And still just really stressed out -- even though the situation is over, the stress doesn't turn itself off like a faucet, you know?


Laura - Mar 13, 2012 10:10:14 am PDT #9640 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

I'm about ready to start a mantra of "Fuck Banks" the way we do about cancer.

Also soulless bureaucrazy in general, including hospitals!


Ginger - Mar 13, 2012 10:10:57 am PDT #9641 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Apparently it doesn't take any staff to keep someone it the hospital for three extra days.


Nora Deirdre - Mar 13, 2012 10:12:03 am PDT #9642 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Apparently it doesn't take any staff to keep someone it the hospital for three extra days.

Right? I mean, why not let him go home for crying out loud?


smonster - Mar 13, 2012 10:15:51 am PDT #9643 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I wonder how many nurses it takes to cost the same as a cardiologist? My guess is at least six.

So, Frankie costume #1 is kind of a bust. The lion's mane is too heavy and I don't think he'll tolerate it for long. So now I have to text my friend C and see if she can help me whip together an elephant costume this afternoon. Oy. Not sure it's worth the hassle for $20 and a chance at a prize, but honestly I'd love to dress him up regardless.


Steph L. - Mar 13, 2012 10:18:51 am PDT #9644 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Apparently it doesn't take any staff to keep someone it the hospital for three extra days.

Right? I mean, why not let him go home for crying out loud?

You articulate my raaaaaage precisely.


Ginger - Mar 13, 2012 10:20:16 am PDT #9645 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

What about a hat and a lot of beads, smonster?


Kate P. - Mar 13, 2012 10:31:08 am PDT #9646 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Ugh, Steph. I'm very glad that your dad is OK right now, but the whole situation is seriously rage-making. I hope you can de-stress soon.