Oh, Maria, it's just going to be hard for a while. I wish you could have him back.

Thanks guys! I swear, I need you people since I don't have coworkers! Anyway, it was all kinda pointless since I rushed around and prettied up and got here and...my first student is a no-show. She's paid up, so at least I'm getting paid to sit here with you invisible peoples. The last one called to apologize and say that she would definitely be here this week, so we'll see what happens, but I still won't have more than two students even if everything goes ideally from here on out.

I am glad to be back getting income from the store, but I feel somehow about having to deal with the vagaries of private lessons again.

eta: Oh, and

I kinda want your haircut too.

Thanks! It's a weird growing-out stage haircut, so I appreciate the compliment. I think it's finally getting to a reasonable length again so I went out and bought hair clips and elastics and bobby pins. Now we'll see if I'm capable of actually doing anything with them.

And because I'm trying not to make it all about me, all of the time: Liese, that was not a lot of makeup. That color looks good with your skintone.

Thanks, Maria. I'm so weird about it at this point since I'm so new to it.

But also, dude? You can totally make it all about you for a while. We're all good with that. And you're not anyway, but you can.

Things never go back to the way they were, but it becomes possible to find joy, and to be able to actually enjoy it.

ND is absolutely right.

Maria, I very much identify with how you feel right now. It's very similar to how I felt (and still feel) about S. The circumstances are very different, but I recognize the emotions on a very personal level. I would try to express myself better, but this is the best I can do from my phone on a bus.

Edited, because I meant to say different, not current.

things that never bothered me (like the dark) are huge right now.

When Hubby's out of the house, I'm suddenly timid about things that don't ping me when he's a couple of rooms away. I try very hard not to think about living alone.

hold up. Lee! You officiate?

Since when?

Congratulations Juliana! How wonderful. Many happy years for both of you.

Congratulations, Juliana! Stealth wedding!

Whoa! Congratulations, Juliana! Pictures?

Congrats, Juliana!

And there are songs I'm probably never going to listen to again.

20 years, and I haven't listened to It's So Hard To Say Goodbye (I have difficulty typing the title and keeping my composure) outside of two funerals. I'll leave the room, talk madly, mutter to myself, shoot the radio, whatever it takes to get away from that song.

It's the only song I own on CD that's not on any of my iTunes installs. My completist streak is not masochistic.