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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Mar 01, 2012 8:32:05 am PST #8892 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thank you so much for the good wishes, everyone. This place is really the best.


javachik - Mar 01, 2012 8:51:37 am PST #8893 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Sj, so happy for you! I already liked your sellers when I saw the "Keep calm and carry on" poster on the wall.

Glamcookie, hope it's what Chikat said - just a benign annoyance! I thought of you Saturday since I was having lunch with my dog walker (who is also a friend), her wife, their new baby, and another couple whom they met in a "gay and getting pregnant!" class. They were all entertaining me with stories of crazy lesbians and I got to remind them that straights can be cray-cray too. I think you and yur wife would have fit right in with the group and had fun!


sj - Mar 01, 2012 8:53:33 am PST #8894 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Sj, so happy for you! I already liked your sellers when I saw the "Keep calm and carry on" poster on the wall.

We complimented him on that last night. We bought "Keep calm and carry on" mugs on our UK honeymoon, so it was a fitting thing to see when we first walked in.


Maria - Mar 01, 2012 8:53:33 am PST #8895 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

So I just talked to an attorney about handling Rob's estate. It hurt more than I expected it to. I'd really like this to stop.


Connie Neil - Mar 01, 2012 9:01:20 am PST #8896 of 30001
brillig

I don't think it does stop, Maria. I think it just hurts a little less.


Maria - Mar 01, 2012 9:05:36 am PST #8897 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

I'm just floored at all the ways that things/actions/moments that used to have no meaning are suddenly fraught with emotion and weight. It's like being blindsided multiple times a day.

The weight of everything is what's surprised me the most.


Maria - Mar 01, 2012 9:09:10 am PST #8898 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

And I can't listen to music. Too many landmines. It's too quiet now. The TV is always on when I'm at home, and news radio in the car, but I miss listening to music.


sj - Mar 01, 2012 9:10:49 am PST #8899 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

(((Maria))) I'm so sorry that you're in so much pain.


Burrell - Mar 01, 2012 9:12:15 am PST #8900 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Sending much ~ma to GC for good results, and many hugs to Maria.


Maria - Mar 01, 2012 9:15:05 am PST #8901 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Not to continue to be all memememe....

You all knew we had problems--ones that were big enough to seriously consider going our separate ways. We both made so many mistakes and held so many grudges and fought the dirtiest way possible, but I've now realized that none of that mattered in the end. I wasted so much time being angry, and I'll regret that for the rest of my life.