That really sucks, Pix. I wish I could think of something supportive to say.
Overwhelming? How much more than whelming would that be exactly?
Anya ,'Touched'
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sj - May 08, 2013 6:43:25 pm PDT #29885 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Pix - May 08, 2013 6:45:48 pm PDT #29886 of 30001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Oh crap. I didn't go back and read before venting. Good on you, sj, for pulling off the proverbial band aid. Zen, feel better (I think I'm getting sick, too, in misery-loves-company news).
JZ - May 08, 2013 6:46:54 pm PDT #29887 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I'm so sorry, Pix. That's so grimly consistent with my (mercifully, comparatively brief) dealings with BoA, and with every rageful broken contemptuous thing I've ever heard anyone else say about them.
billytea - May 08, 2013 7:03:59 pm PDT #29888 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
I'm sorry, Pix. That would be so infuriating.
Cass - May 08, 2013 7:27:01 pm PDT #29889 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
The five days I spent on 'roids have given me a great deal of sympathy for those who have to deal with them frequently (and bewilerment for those who choose to).
I need them for breathing (probably low dose and inhaled) and I still kinda hate them. For making me feel better. For not making me feel like I have actual healthy, nearly invincible, lungs.
I'm sorry, Pix. Like you guys aren't a great risk given you want less than the collateral is worth. Worst case scenario, they could still win. Which is more than a lot could say in the last decade. We're in a really not great place when it comes to economics. I hate our boom and bust economics. I don't think it's actually good for the society as a whole.
I am so cranky. And tired.
le nubian - May 08, 2013 7:51:14 pm PDT #29890 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Pix,
you may have tried this already, but perhaps get in touch with a mortgage broker? One might be able to help you out.
smonster - May 08, 2013 8:08:02 pm PDT #29891 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Oh, man, Pix. What assholes. My bank got bought out by them back in the 90s, and as soon as I could I jumped to a credit union. Hate hate hate.
Scrappy - May 08, 2013 8:29:40 pm PDT #29892 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
How frustrating and horrible, pix!
NoiseDesign - May 08, 2013 9:09:39 pm PDT #29893 of 30001
Our wings are not tired
We started with a mortgage broker but since they are licensed to operate in a given state and we live in California but the property is in FL they couldn't help us. We apparently have to deal directly with a bank that operates in both CA and FL.
It's just rediculous. It went from needing to show the underwrites that we have $5000 cash on hand to $15,000. If I had an extra $10,000 sitting around we wouldn't be trying to get the loan.
The really stupid thing is I could most likely go to a car dealership tomorrow and have a $50,000 car financed in a matter of hours, but we can't get a loan secured on a property that is worth twice the value of the load and is completely paid off.
le nubian - May 08, 2013 9:23:02 pm PDT #29894 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Hmm. And you can't do a personal loan? Interest rate is probably too high, right?