Debet, so sorry sweeite. hugs to you.
We killed a homeless man on this bench. Me and Dru. Those were good times. You know, he begged for mercy, and you know, that only made her bite harder.
Spike ,'Sleeper'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Vortex - Apr 19, 2013 5:26:13 pm PDT #29183 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Glamcookie - Apr 19, 2013 6:00:48 pm PDT #29184 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Debet, I'm so sorry. It's so hard to say goodbye to a beloved pet - especially when you have to make the final decision. Charlie was much loved.
ION, I really need to learn to deal better with my kid when he hits me. I think I'm a pretty good mom in general, but I really feel the fight or flight reflex kick in when he hauls off and smacks me. I just get SO pissed and I raise my voice and it alarms him and hurts his feelings - queue the tears and him not wanting me around for a bit. Yes, he needs to know hitting is not acceptable, but I need to learn to deal in a reasonable, adult manner. This parenthood thing is hard.
Trudy Booth - Apr 19, 2013 6:27:47 pm PDT #29185 of 30001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
It's a pack of lies, I tell ya. It's otter slander and I won't stand for it.
Burrell - Apr 19, 2013 8:05:20 pm PDT #29186 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
BTDT, Glam. Sure, go ahead and work on not losing your temper, but you're human. It happens. I feel guilty every time I do it, so I get the guilt, but you're human.
Calli - Apr 20, 2013 2:42:33 am PDT #29187 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Maybe he'll start connecting hitting you with hurt feelings and stop.
ETA: Not a parent, so my input's probably not worth much.
sj - Apr 20, 2013 4:35:24 pm PDT #29188 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Where are all the Bitches today?
I went out with TCG's stepmother today to a tea shop and to get manicures. I haven't had my nails done in a very long time. They're now a gorgeous shade of very dark purple.
erin_obscure - Apr 20, 2013 5:50:49 pm PDT #29189 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
I'm at work. In spite of today being 4/20 it's not super exciting here. That is nice. I've been brushing up on my Buffy trivia cuz...well, just cuz.
sj - Apr 20, 2013 6:20:08 pm PDT #29190 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
erin, I hope it continues to be a slow night.
smonster - Apr 21, 2013 11:02:22 am PDT #29191 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I'm sorry, Debet. That's so sad.
I'm at work. In spite of today being 4/20 it's not super exciting here. That is nice.
amyth and I ended up in the Wendy's drivethrough that night behind someone who took ten minutes to place a $40 order, and then another five minutes to pay and receive the order. We wondered at our foolishness in hitting up a fast food restaurant on 4/20.
Glam, you are human. Would it help to acknowledge your anger in the moment? To tell him that it makes you upset and angry? I mean, that's one reason he oughten't do it, right?
le nubian - Apr 21, 2013 11:11:09 am PDT #29192 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
amyth and I ended up in the Wendy's drivethrough that night behind someone who took ten minutes to place a $40 order, and then another five minutes to pay and receive the order. We wondered at our foolishness in hitting up a fast food restaurant on 4/20.
this gave me QUITE a chuckle. dare we ask what YOU were doing there?