I'm very sorry, Debet. The right decision can be difficult. And losing a pet leaves such a void.
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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Debet, I am so sorry. Much love to you.
Debet, so sorry sweeite. hugs to you.
Debet, I'm so sorry. It's so hard to say goodbye to a beloved pet - especially when you have to make the final decision. Charlie was much loved.
ION, I really need to learn to deal better with my kid when he hits me. I think I'm a pretty good mom in general, but I really feel the fight or flight reflex kick in when he hauls off and smacks me. I just get SO pissed and I raise my voice and it alarms him and hurts his feelings - queue the tears and him not wanting me around for a bit. Yes, he needs to know hitting is not acceptable, but I need to learn to deal in a reasonable, adult manner. This parenthood thing is hard.
It's a pack of lies, I tell ya. It's otter slander and I won't stand for it.
BTDT, Glam. Sure, go ahead and work on not losing your temper, but you're human. It happens. I feel guilty every time I do it, so I get the guilt, but you're human.
Maybe he'll start connecting hitting you with hurt feelings and stop.
ETA: Not a parent, so my input's probably not worth much.
Where are all the Bitches today?
I went out with TCG's stepmother today to a tea shop and to get manicures. I haven't had my nails done in a very long time. They're now a gorgeous shade of very dark purple.
I'm at work. In spite of today being 4/20 it's not super exciting here. That is nice. I've been brushing up on my Buffy trivia cuz...well, just cuz.
erin, I hope it continues to be a slow night.