Wash: You want a slinky dress? I can buy you a slinky dress. Captain, can I have money for a slinky dress? Jayne: I'll chip in. Zoe: I can hurt you.

'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Liese S. - Apr 19, 2013 11:48:07 am PDT #29167 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Today's Day One with Bra of Awesome. Looks awesome. But the straps are set a little wide. So it feels awesome as long as I have good posture, but digs a bit when I slouch. Which is most of the time. Like now, leaning on the desk to type. I should probably stop doing that, huh? So it might be the Bra of only partially Awesome.


juliana - Apr 19, 2013 11:54:32 am PDT #29168 of 30001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Debet, I am so sorry.


juliana - Apr 19, 2013 11:57:38 am PDT #29169 of 30001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

And in another post, I'm in love with the bras from True & Co., especially since I can try them on in my own home and send the ones that don't fit or don't work back. They seem to be going through a low-inventory period, but their selection usually is extensive.


Liese S. - Apr 19, 2013 12:03:27 pm PDT #29170 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

That looks pretty cool. I'll have to try that when I hit goal weight.


le nubian - Apr 19, 2013 12:03:35 pm PDT #29171 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

(catching up)

Debet, I'm sorry.


beekaytee - Apr 19, 2013 12:25:51 pm PDT #29172 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Oh Debet, I am right there with you. The best decision is the hardest.

Thank you for doing the right thing for Charlie. And, bless you for putting his best interests first.

Please be gentle with yourself and honor your own courage through whatever the grieving process brings you.

People (Buffistas mostly) were so wise when they said the grief would never pass, but that it changes.


DebetEsse - Apr 19, 2013 12:59:00 pm PDT #29173 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

At this point, the hardest part is that I don't have the luxury of time to stop for a couple hours and have a good cry, so I'm just sort of leaky while I'm doing school work. I fully expect that once I get on the airplane on Tuesday (at which point, everything has to be done), I will turn to a weeping ball of snot. I suppose that's not hugely uncommon on airplanes.


beekaytee - Apr 19, 2013 1:02:33 pm PDT #29174 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Ugh. I hope you get through things more easily than you anticipate and that have time to grieve when it is right.


erin_obscure - Apr 19, 2013 2:00:42 pm PDT #29175 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

{{{{{debet}}}} that sucks.

Meara, my mom swears by Olga bras ("lightly lined" and zero underwire.) They don't have enough support for me but YBMV


Calli - Apr 19, 2013 2:04:43 pm PDT #29176 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm sorry about our kitty, Debet. I hope you have a few moments to yourself soon.

I just started wearing non-underwire bras gain for the first time in years. I had a once-comfortable underwire style that I bought multiples of and wore all the time, but it started irritating the skin under my breasts. The non-underwire ones are taking a little getting used to.