And in another post, I'm in love with the bras from True & Co., especially since I can try them on in my own home and send the ones that don't fit or don't work back. They seem to be going through a low-inventory period, but their selection usually is extensive.

That looks pretty cool. I'll have to try that when I hit goal weight.

(catching up)

Debet, I'm sorry.

Oh Debet, I am right there with you. The best decision is the hardest.

Thank you for doing the right thing for Charlie. And, bless you for putting his best interests first.

Please be gentle with yourself and honor your own courage through whatever the grieving process brings you.

People (Buffistas mostly) were so wise when they said the grief would never pass, but that it changes.

At this point, the hardest part is that I don't have the luxury of time to stop for a couple hours and have a good cry, so I'm just sort of leaky while I'm doing school work. I fully expect that once I get on the airplane on Tuesday (at which point, everything has to be done), I will turn to a weeping ball of snot. I suppose that's not hugely uncommon on airplanes.

Ugh. I hope you get through things more easily than you anticipate and that have time to grieve when it is right.

{{{{{debet}}}} that sucks.

Meara, my mom swears by Olga bras ("lightly lined" and zero underwire.) They don't have enough support for me but YBMV

I'm sorry about our kitty, Debet. I hope you have a few moments to yourself soon.

I just started wearing non-underwire bras gain for the first time in years. I had a once-comfortable underwire style that I bought multiples of and wore all the time, but it started irritating the skin under my breasts. The non-underwire ones are taking a little getting used to.

I need to start looking into supportive non-underwire bras, because I have become way to sensitive to the underwire.

erin,

if I wore one of those Olga bras, I would be arrested.