On my seventh birthday, I wanted a toy fire truck, and I didn't get it, and you were real nice about it, and then the house next door burnt down, and then real firetrucks came, and for years I thought you set the fire for me. And if you did, you can tell me!

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Beverly - Apr 19, 2013 10:10:13 am PDT #29157 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Debet, I'm very sorry. It just isn't fair their life span's so short, compared to ours.

David, good luck, and full voice ~ma!

Glad TCG is home, sj.

I've never worn underwire bras, and I've defaulted to good sports bras (no wires) because I decided my comfort, long-term, is more important than how pleasant I appeared to strangers. Nothing wrong with wanting to look great, but for me, I'm partial to lower heels and comfier bras.


askye - Apr 19, 2013 10:11:31 am PDT #29158 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I'm so sorry Debet.


brenda m - Apr 19, 2013 10:12:06 am PDT #29159 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Love to you, debet.

I can't stand non-underwire bras.


askye - Apr 19, 2013 10:15:55 am PDT #29160 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I will soon be getting my third therapist since I moved up here. It's not me, my previous one moved (or something), my current one lives 50 miles away and has been doing the commute for 5 years so now she's opening up her own practice down where she lives.


Burrell - Apr 19, 2013 10:21:16 am PDT #29161 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Underwires tend to stay where I want them to be, whereas the non-underwires are prone to roaming if they aren't moored properly.


DebetEsse - Apr 19, 2013 10:24:52 am PDT #29162 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Yeah, I'm exclusively underwire at this point, though I've considered getting some of the simple elastic sports bras for sleeping.


Fred Pete - Apr 19, 2013 10:27:16 am PDT #29163 of 30001
Ann, that's a ferret.

((((Debet)))) RIP, Charlie.


Maria - Apr 19, 2013 10:29:55 am PDT #29164 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Debet, I'm so sorry.

I'm an underwire gal, unless we're talking about what I wear to the gym. My sports bras are all racerbacks.


beth b - Apr 19, 2013 10:56:05 am PDT #29165 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm sorry, Debet


meara - Apr 19, 2013 11:04:03 am PDT #29166 of 30001

I have underwires because I don't want to wear sportsbras or ones without any padding (nipplage, rather than size issues), and I don't know of any that have padding and no underwire. But I'd gladly wear them if they were obtainable!