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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Maria - Apr 19, 2013 10:29:55 am PDT #29164 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Debet, I'm so sorry.

I'm an underwire gal, unless we're talking about what I wear to the gym. My sports bras are all racerbacks.


beth b - Apr 19, 2013 10:56:05 am PDT #29165 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm sorry, Debet


meara - Apr 19, 2013 11:04:03 am PDT #29166 of 30001

I have underwires because I don't want to wear sportsbras or ones without any padding (nipplage, rather than size issues), and I don't know of any that have padding and no underwire. But I'd gladly wear them if they were obtainable!


Liese S. - Apr 19, 2013 11:48:07 am PDT #29167 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Today's Day One with Bra of Awesome. Looks awesome. But the straps are set a little wide. So it feels awesome as long as I have good posture, but digs a bit when I slouch. Which is most of the time. Like now, leaning on the desk to type. I should probably stop doing that, huh? So it might be the Bra of only partially Awesome.


juliana - Apr 19, 2013 11:54:32 am PDT #29168 of 30001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Debet, I am so sorry.


juliana - Apr 19, 2013 11:57:38 am PDT #29169 of 30001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

And in another post, I'm in love with the bras from True & Co., especially since I can try them on in my own home and send the ones that don't fit or don't work back. They seem to be going through a low-inventory period, but their selection usually is extensive.


Liese S. - Apr 19, 2013 12:03:27 pm PDT #29170 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

That looks pretty cool. I'll have to try that when I hit goal weight.


le nubian - Apr 19, 2013 12:03:35 pm PDT #29171 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

(catching up)

Debet, I'm sorry.


beekaytee - Apr 19, 2013 12:25:51 pm PDT #29172 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Oh Debet, I am right there with you. The best decision is the hardest.

Thank you for doing the right thing for Charlie. And, bless you for putting his best interests first.

Please be gentle with yourself and honor your own courage through whatever the grieving process brings you.

People (Buffistas mostly) were so wise when they said the grief would never pass, but that it changes.


DebetEsse - Apr 19, 2013 12:59:00 pm PDT #29173 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

At this point, the hardest part is that I don't have the luxury of time to stop for a couple hours and have a good cry, so I'm just sort of leaky while I'm doing school work. I fully expect that once I get on the airplane on Tuesday (at which point, everything has to be done), I will turn to a weeping ball of snot. I suppose that's not hugely uncommon on airplanes.