I have been arguing with the French railroad website and my credit card company for a while now. The website says that they can't process my order, because the credit card company rejected the charge. The credit card company says that they didn't reject the charge, because the railroad never submitted it to them to begin with. This is aggravating.

Is this why French people say "sacre bleu!" cause it sounds like it. Have you ever looked at someone's facebook and wondered if it's possible to be *too* socially conscious?(It's okay if it's mine)

Have you ever looked at someone's facebook and wondered if it's possible to be *too* socially conscious?

Yes, totally. But then I figure there are people who are FB friends with me (like women I went to high school with) who think *I* am that person for them (although I don't know how I could be, since half of my posts are pictures of the pets and the other half are talking about what I cooked for dinner).

Just so they aren't the same half.

Have you ever looked at someone's facebook and wondered if it's possible to be *too* socially conscious?

I don't think so. But I have unfollowed that person on Tumblr.

But then Facebook for me is made up of a lot of people I feel like I have to "friend." So we're not real friends, only Facebook friends. Crazypants extended family and people I went to school with but only don't unfriend because we've still got mutual friends that I do like.

But on Tumblr? Totally. I don't disagree with being socially conscious and calling attention to things but some people push it so far that it doesn't feel like a conversation or even an opportunity to think, learn or push comfort zones. It just feels like grandstanding so *they* look The Most Socially Conscious of Them ALL.

Man, I needed to take a Flexoril because my back was seized up last night, but I am a total zombie today.

But then I figure there are people who are FB friends with me (like women I went to high school with) who think *I* am that person for them (although I don't know how I could be, since half of my posts are pictures of the pets and the other half are talking about what I cooked for dinner).

This! Very much so. I have tons of friends who were bitching about how marriage shouldn't be the goal, and people shouldn't change to the equals sign on FB because it's an HRC thing, and HRC is evil to the trans* people and therefore you are PERSONALLY HATING THEM if you change your profile pic. And I had other friends from college, mostly who are like 'Yeah, gay is fine...not my thing..."

HRC=Hilary Rodham Clinton?

Human Rights Campaign.

HRC=Hilary Rodham Clinton?

Hah! Oh, I hadn't even realized they shared initials! Hil got it, it's Human Rights Campaign. Big gay lobbying group. Which admittedly is more known for their rich white men than their diversity of queers or anything.