Oh and smonster, I didn't mean to call you out so much as I recognized the kind of thing I'd do, that I have done when I was in your place. Held out hope for way too many years with one guy, but I'm an idiot that way. Really it's a good thing I met my DH, I was hopelessly bad at dating.
I got stabbed, you know, right here.
Mal ,'Shindig'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
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Burrell - Nov 14, 2011 5:03:20 pm PST #2776 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Anne W. - Nov 14, 2011 5:06:56 pm PST #2777 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
A propos of nothing, there are times I really wished I lived closer to more of y'all.
Ginger - Nov 14, 2011 5:07:46 pm PST #2778 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Amen, Anne.
Strix - Nov 14, 2011 5:20:53 pm PST #2779 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
I'm in KC, Anne!!
It's, uh...only 3 hours?!
Anne W. - Nov 14, 2011 5:23:16 pm PST #2780 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
I'm in KC, Anne!!
Ooh. Yes. That's right. Visitage is certainly possible. I would also like to get up to Chicago again at some point not too far from now.
smonster - Nov 14, 2011 5:38:52 pm PST #2781 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
No, Burrell, I do the same thing. Over and over again.
I would like to live closer to more of you, too.
Liese S. - Nov 14, 2011 5:56:51 pm PST #2782 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
If all y'all do that, say, between Thanksgiving and New Years, I could manage to be in Chicago, ijs...
Cass - Nov 14, 2011 5:57:19 pm PST #2783 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
The problem with deplaning is that I am now poking at the internets wanting them to amuse me and when I was stuck on the plane I was reading a really not very good book but I felt slightly productive because I was reading a published book and not, um, Tumblr. Also I forgot how to stop sentences. Apparently.
Burrell, I think you want the lipstick version of Sally Hansen Oriental Red. Totally works with our coloring and is what I'd describe as a bloody true red. And got me a lot of compliments this weekend with some glitter on top. Though that isn't strictly relevant.
§ ita § - Nov 14, 2011 5:58:30 pm PST #2784 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I wouldn't even emphasise the idea that it is his loss. That makes it seem like something is broken, something is wrong. You want different things. You two are not the right match right now. That's all. You're both okay. Just differently motivated.
Cass - Nov 14, 2011 6:17:04 pm PST #2785 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
I wouldn't even emphasise the idea that it is his loss. That makes it seem like something is broken, something is wrong. You want different things. You two are not the right match right now. That's all. You're both okay. Just differently motivated.
Sometimes two awesome people are not going in the same direction and neither wishes to change their course to suit the other. It's okay.